can't agree on age range

[BCinIN]

If I was age 38 and my man specifically wanted age 18-25 (or had to look 18-25) or else he wasn't interested, or if I was size 16 and my man specifically wanted size 2-8's and nothing else would do for him, well....we would have a problem. I think it would be utterly impossible to not take this personally.

This isn't just a chick thing, either. A man would feel the same way if his wife was only attracted to men over 6' tall (but he's only 5'8"), or if she'd only consider men with penises over 8" and thick (but his penis is 5.5" and average girth). He's not going to get any taller. He's not going to grow a bigger penis. A woman is not going to look 18-25 years old for the rest of her life.

You hit the nail right on the head! If my wife preferred people that were specifically different than me in some respect (and vice versa), our relationship would have a serious--and very likely terminal--problem. The whole "you're perfect for me" relationship doesn't really exist if someone prefers something else...and who wants to remain in a relationship with a partner who makes them feel mediocre, or merely "very good?" Not me--perhaps I'm spoiled?

[Tia Vampire]

Thanks for all of your responces and No, Maria you did not make me feel the need to get defensive. I can relate to your ansewer. I guess i'm alright with it because not everyone take care of themselves in the same manner. Some people tell us that they are in their 30's and they look like they are in their late 40's and early 50's. Even though i can appreciate a nice looking body no matter the age, not everyone can look over the ages. I know this much though, he will not be able to talk me into being with a couple that look like they are around my children ages. I'm also a very stubburn person.

[des1re06]

I totally understand. We met one couple where she was 18, and he was 38 (married) and she's only 2 years older than my daughters. She's gorgeous eye candy.

Not gonna happen!

Mrs. D

[sexcupid]

Originally Posted by Tia Vampire

I'm also a very stubburn person.

rotflmao

[Lovethenights]

Tybee is right about looks not lasting for the rest of his life... What's he going to do when you hit 40!!! (gasp, oh no, good grief...) A really good discussion with a group of guys who are salivating over your body could help him develop the appreciation for you that you deserve. It sounds like just a matter of his emotoinal maturity catching up with yours. I mean you married him for his good looks and because he was your perfect boy toym, right?

[redhot23]

i find girls from 45 to 18 all atractive. i am 34 . my wife is 27.

[redhot23]

i just love women. i wOULD be with a 60yr old if it felt right.

[Darkblue]

I dont mind if she is 18 or 55 as long as i like them and find them attractive then i see no problem my wife prefers men same age or slightly older than herself but she doesnt like the idea of me with a female under the age of 25 ish so now we have a rule no females under 25 and thats fine with me and of course anyone one of us can veto the other.
I personaly have a problem if the guy is a lot older than my wife(10 years+) but as she says she plays with him and not me,but she does respect my wishes as i do hers.

so i think you bothhave to find a happy middle that is acceptable to you both... finding a couple where he is older and she younger, i would presume will be near impossible..

but one never knows!!

Steve

[sexcupid]

Darkblue and redhot...it's not whether you would be ok playing with someone that age...the point the OP was trying to make (I believe) is that her partner automatically vetos anyone that either isn't or doesn't look within a specific age range. (That's just the way I interpreted it...the rest of this is just my own person bitch-fest...sorry )

What if you like small/petite/athletic body for a woman, yet you were with someone who definitely fit into the round/curvy/BBW mold. Or if your partner was always looking for a man that was over 6ft tall, with a thick 10 inch dick...and you would at best be 5'9" and on a great day your soldier was 5.5 inches and not particuarly thick...and that stated that was their PREFERENCE? My response to that is "WTF are you doing with me then?"

Yes, I understand that for whatever reason you may be attracted to someone outside of your normal preference...however, if someone comes along that does have the physical attributes that you prefer and some of the attidude/perspectives/likes/ect. that you do. Are you going to leave the person you've been with because you have now found someone who has features you prefer, AND similar qualities that drew you to the person outside of your norm...the total package for lack of a better description?


Ok, I'm done now...lol

Maria

[Lovers4U]

Choice of age should be yours and again communication is very essential. If you can't agree there is trouble coming as this disagreement can lead to other issues and a breakdown of your relationship. As to age, I and my wife are older but have kept ourselves in good health and look much younger then our chronological age and it is disappointing that some would make their play decision on just age alone though that is their right and choice. We both are very involved when we play, are experienced and both of us stay sexually fit. As far as the sex is concerned we both can play as well as most any younger person. What I'm saying is that other characteristics should be used to choose play partners. We think age is not a good criteria in some situations. I would thing that HWP, attraction of each individual, ability to communicate with flexibility. "First play together" ought to be more of a criteria but again, that is each choice but we think some miss out because they narrow their play persons too strictly.

[djjwp]

We can handle anything younger.

I like woman to be as young and in shape as possible.
She will work up to 10+/- on the men.
I like 2+ and younger. I really enjoy fit, energetic woman and the younger ones tend to fit that bill.