swinging and age, how big a gap is too big? - Page 2

HotOwassoMILF · 04-28-2007, 08:38 AM

Age is just that, nothing but a number. But the problem is, do you have things on common. You could be 21 & have nothign in common w/ another 21 yr old couple, but say you could have tons in common with a couple thats 50 & above. If you're attracted to them & have some commmon interested I say go for it no matter what age.

**good times** · 04-28-2007, 01:50 PM

I just have to make an observation here that not everyone needs to have a lot in common with someone in order to play. I have several playmates that we really don't have anything in common other than we really turn each other on sexually, and their is nothing wrong with that in my opinion. We are hooking up with people for sex here, and I for one would much rather hook up with someone of any age that is really fun to play with than someone my own age that I can hang out with and share a lot of stuff in common with but is no fun in bed.

**SW_PA_Couple** · 04-28-2007, 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by havefuninsun

I think if a couple looked like my parents that would be a line I just couldn't cross. Otherwise -- what the hell. Have fun!

Defines, more or less, the line fo us. If the youthful appearance reminds us in any way, of our children, the desire dissolves.

Wernervb · 04-29-2007, 01:54 PM

Frankly, I never ask age. If I find out someone's age it is because it was volunteered. I have been with 20 years older and 20 years younger. Attraction is the only requirement.

Thrax · 04-29-2007, 04:51 PM

I'm 50 years old.

I'm willing to consider partners in the plus-or-minus 25-years window. On the lower end I'll need to see ID. On the upper end I'll need clearance from her physician.

Thrax
P.S. Those are my limits NOW. Please feel free to check for an update in five years.

ohash01 · 04-30-2007, 05:40 PM

Quote:

I'm 50 years old.

No way, Thrax. You are 50 years young.

Age doesn't matter much to us. We've just found it's "easiest" in our age group. I am mid-20s, J. is upper-20s-soon-to-be-30s. We have more in common with other 20 or 30 somethings. I am interested in being with an older man, but it would have to be the right one. I want to feel like we're on "even" ground. For legal reasons, we can't go much younger...

charms123 · 05-01-2007, 10:41 AM

We are in our early 40's. We have played with couples in their late 20's and as high as their later 50's. It’s all about the person. I act young. My husband acts younger (no not immature). We like music from Sinatra to Snopp Dogg to Pearl Jam. Go figure.

So it’s all about the people and how they get along.

Our opinions are not always shared with Management!!

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04-28-2007, 08:38 AM	#16 (permalink)
HotOwassoMILF Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Owasso, OK Status: single female	Re: swinging and age, how big a gap is too big? Age is just that, nothing but a number. But the problem is, do you have things on common. You could be 21 & have nothign in common w/ another 21 yr old couple, but say you could have tons in common with a couple thats 50 & above. If you're attracted to them & have some commmon interested I say go for it no matter what age.

04-28-2007, 01:50 PM	#17 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: swinging and age, how big a gap is too big? I just have to make an observation here that not everyone needs to have a lot in common with someone in order to play. I have several playmates that we really don't have anything in common other than we really turn each other on sexually, and their is nothing wrong with that in my opinion. We are hooking up with people for sex here, and I for one would much rather hook up with someone of any age that is really fun to play with than someone my own age that I can hang out with and share a lot of stuff in common with but is no fun in bed.
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04-29-2007, 01:54 PM	#19 (permalink)
Wernervb Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Phoenix Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:BD91	Re: swinging and age, how big a gap is too big? Frankly, I never ask age. If I find out someone's age it is because it was volunteered. I have been with 20 years older and 20 years younger. Attraction is the only requirement.

04-29-2007, 04:51 PM	#20 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: swinging and age, how big a gap is too big? I'm 50 years old. I'm willing to *consider* partners in the plus-or-minus 25-years window. On the lower end I'll need to see ID. On the upper end I'll need clearance from her physician. Thrax P.S. Those are my limits NOW. Please feel free to check for an update in five years.
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05-01-2007, 10:41 AM	#22 (permalink)
charms123 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 102 Location: Delaware Status: Couple	Re: swinging and age, how big a gap is too big? We are in our early 40's. We have played with couples in their late 20's and as high as their later 50's. It’s all about the person. I act young. My husband acts younger (no not immature). We like music from Sinatra to Snopp Dogg to Pearl Jam. Go figure. So it’s all about the people and how they get along. Our opinions are not always shared with Management!! N (of M&N)
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