Is Age A Factor? - Page 2

Mariposa_y_Oso · 01-07-2003, 04:06 PM

Age isn't neccessarily a huge factor with me, but Mari from time to time has issues with it. I'm always teasing her because every now and then she'll come up with something like, "But Mike, he's 28 - that's the same age as my little brother!" (she's 31). This goes the other way, too, "He's the same age as my [older] cousin!" So far, it hasn't prevented us from playing with anyone when there was a mutual attraction, but maybe that's because I'll occassionally tease her by saying, (in my best Mari-esque voice) "But Mike, he's the same age as my great-aunt's brother's cousin's niece's best friend's girlfriend's brother's best friend from the 3rd grade!" My point being that everyone is the same age as someone that we know.

I will say that my age range is MUCH wider than hers is though. Mari is most comfortable with people 25-45 or thereabouts. As for me....well, let's just say that if some 19 year old came up to me and wanted to get freaky, I don't think I'd have any problems with that. By the same token, if Sophia Loren walks up to me this weekend at the club, my pants will be off before we get to the room.

Maybe it's a male/female thing. I'll let everyone in on a little secret...well, maybe I shouldn't...after all, it IS a well guarded secret that almost no one knows about...oh, all right, I like all of you, so it should be okay to let you in on this one...Men tend to be horndogs. lmmfao

Hey Ri!!! You mentioned people in their 40's...in their 20's...mid to late 50's...even a guy that was 63. What about us 30-somethings?!?! C'mon...Ohio is a long ways away from Texas! What are the odds that we'll ever meet? Lie to me and tell me I'd at least have a shot!

Cheers!
~Mike

OhioCouple · 01-07-2003, 04:21 PM

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Originally posted by Mariposa_y_Oso
Hey Ri!!! You mentioned people in their 40's...in their 20's...mid to late 50's...even a guy that was 63. What about us 30-somethings?!?! C'mon...Ohio is a long ways away from Texas! What are the odds that we'll ever meet? Lie to me and tell me I'd at least have a shot!

Well Mike,

After having seen what an attractive woman Mari is in another thread, (going by gut instinct here), I would have to believe she isn't married to a dweeb. Yeah, you would have a shot!

Does that put a smile on the ole ego?

Lori aka "Ri"

ciscosv · 01-07-2003, 04:44 PM

Not many young couples replying here yet. I am 25 and my wife is 22. We are pretty different in respects to the age subject. I have an older woman fetish that my wife is well aware of. The age is completely unimportant. A sexy attitude is where it is at for me.

When we first started talking about meeting couples, age was the subject of discussion. 18 is fine - 21 is preferred. Her cutoff was 35 at the time because her parents are 40.

We dont really ask others what their age is when at some swing dances. To me its unimportant. I caught her making out with the gentleman of a couple while dancing an evening long ago. I know he was at least late thirties early forties. He turned her on something wild and now has changed to, "As long as they don't look like my parents."

Bottom line is....We dont have many problems age.

Mariposa_y_Oso · 01-07-2003, 07:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by OhioCouple
Well Mike,

After having seen what an attractive woman Mari is in another thread, (going by gut instinct here), I would have to believe she isn't married to a dweeb. Yeah, you would have a shot!

Does that put a smile on the ole ego?

Lori aka "Ri"

Did that pic get attached after all? I didn't think that it had...

No, Mari didn't marry a dweeb. A geek perhaps...probably a dork...definately some sort of smartass/dumbass paradox...but a dweeb...NEVER!

The ego is all aglow and smiling nicely, thank you! Maybe someday I'll make your fantasies come true and post my pic here...if I can figure out how I did it the first time. lmmfao

~Mike

NVaCouple · 01-07-2003, 10:56 PM

My wife and I are newbies to swinging. While we have had only limited experiences to date, we definitely feel more comfortable with couples close to our own age (mid 40's). Our nervousness is greatly lessoned by spending time talking with the other people, and we definitely have more in common with folks our own age. This will probably change once we become more comfortable with the lifestyle, but for now, being comfortable is a big thing.

J & K · 01-07-2003, 11:13 PM

"J" here the second half of "K".

Sometimes I feel like an "OLD" person going on 40 in 10 months. K says I like them younger women---I do, but I think for myself a woman between 30 and 45 has sex appeal. A younger gal seems to look at life to have fun. Above 30 I think most ladies have been married or kids and know life a little bit better than the young ones. That is mental stimulation for me.

K likes men older than 35 and younger than 45 (with exceptions). She like a more mature look to them. She says younger men are more likely to just get their rocks off than anything else. Older men seem to take care of a lady better.

So--yes, we too have set an age limit.

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01-07-2003, 04:06 PM	#16 (permalink)
Mariposa_y_Oso Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 76 Location: El Paso, TX Status: Married Couple	Age isn't neccessarily a huge factor with me, but Mari from time to time has issues with it. I'm always teasing her because every now and then she'll come up with something like, "But Mike, he's 28 - that's the same age as my little brother!" (she's 31). This goes the other way, too, "He's the same age as my [older] cousin!" So far, it hasn't prevented us from playing with anyone when there was a mutual attraction, but maybe that's because I'll occassionally tease her by saying, (in my best Mari-esque voice) "But Mike, he's the same age as my great-aunt's brother's cousin's niece's best friend's girlfriend's brother's best friend from the 3rd grade!" My point being that everyone is the same age as someone that we know. I will say that my age range is MUCH wider than hers is though. Mari is most comfortable with people 25-45 or thereabouts. As for me....well, let's just say that if some 19 year old came up to me and wanted to get freaky, I don't think I'd have any problems with that. By the same token, if Sophia Loren walks up to me this weekend at the club, my pants will be off before we get to the room. Maybe it's a male/female thing. I'll let everyone in on a little secret...well, maybe I shouldn't...after all, it IS a well guarded secret that almost no one knows about...oh, all right, I like all of you, so it should be okay to let you in on this one...Men tend to be horndogs. lmmfao Hey Ri!!! You mentioned people in their 40's...in their 20's...mid to late 50's...even a guy that was 63. What about us 30-somethings?!?! C'mon...Ohio is a long ways away from Texas! What are the odds that we'll ever meet? Lie to me and tell me I'd at least have a shot! Cheers! ~Mike
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01-07-2003, 04:44 PM	#18 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 755 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	Not many young couples replying here yet. I am 25 and my wife is 22. We are pretty different in respects to the age subject. I have an older woman fetish that my wife is well aware of. The age is completely unimportant. A sexy attitude is where it is at for me. When we first started talking about meeting couples, age was the subject of discussion. 18 is fine - 21 is preferred. Her cutoff was 35 at the time because her parents are 40. We dont really ask others what their age is when at some swing dances. To me its unimportant. I caught her making out with the gentleman of a couple while dancing an evening long ago. I know he was at least late thirties early forties. He turned her on something wild and now has changed to, "As long as they don't look like my parents." Bottom line is....We dont have many problems age.
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01-07-2003, 11:13 PM	#21 (permalink)
J & K Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 192 Location: Middle GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OKC_CPL	I feel old and young "J" here the second half of "K". Sometimes I feel like an "OLD" person going on 40 in 10 months. K says I like them younger women---I do, but I think for myself a woman between 30 and 45 has sex appeal. A younger gal seems to look at life to have fun. Above 30 I think most ladies have been married or kids and know life a little bit better than the young ones. That is mental stimulation for me. K likes men older than 35 and younger than 45 (with exceptions). She like a more mature look to them. She says younger men are more likely to just get their rocks off than anything else. Older men seem to take care of a lady better. So--yes, we too have set an age limit.

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01-07-2003, 10:56 PM	#20 (permalink)
NVaCouple Registered Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 4 Location: Northern Virginia Status: Couple	My wife and I are newbies to swinging. While we have had only limited experiences to date, we definitely feel more comfortable with couples close to our own age (mid 40's). Our nervousness is greatly lessoned by spending time talking with the other people, and we definitely have more in common with folks our own age. This will probably change once we become more comfortable with the lifestyle, but for now, being comfortable is a big thing.

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