age difference with swinging partners

[foozballnow]

I was just curious what some of the maximum age differences were for people in the life style. As in what was the biggest difference in age you have had with a swing partner.

Part 2 of the question. What would be the most difference you would allow

part 3. any fantasies about age difference

i for one am 21 and have thought about being with someone in their 40's or 50's but never had the opportunity

[gatorvol64]

Well, my husband and I are the same age, 42. One man we play with is 54 (12 years or so). Another has been 33 (9 years). Those ages just about push our limits. Our personal ad says 30 to 55. No, fantasies regarding age, just happen to enjoy being with these people and age doesn't matter so much. Now, I really have to say again that on the young end of the scale(the one I am more strick on for me-her) 30 would have to be the absolute minimum. I just can't imagine being with someone anywhere near my son's age. So, that's what...a 25 year bracket? I really think we should be able to find playmates within that range.

Vol

[scott17201]

age is just a number for me. im 33 and about 2 yrs ago i was with a 49 yr old woman with a great body and nice bush while her husband watched and filmed us. it was fun.

[WesternSwing]

I'm 41 and have had sex with women as young as 23 in the Lifestyle. There are several women older than I that are into me, but the opportunity for sex has never presented itself with them. Now recently I met a 21-year old single bi-female that is really interested in my wife and I, so we'll see how this pans out.

Mr. WS

[ViSexual]

Swinging is about fantasy fulfillment and exploring different things.

If you're interested in exploring being with someone much older then go for it.

I'm certain you'll find plenty of older folks willing to help you experience this.

Have fun,

Rich

[JTcamp05]

My last partner was 24 years older.......as long as everyone is comfortable age doesnt matter one bit. I think it is less of a factor in the swinging lifestyle because your not looking for a mate your looking for a sexual partner so you may be more free to explore age differences.

I would encourage you to explore this that is what it's all about...something different !!

[CB_n_Red]

I can recall one swinging partner who was 28 years younger than me. It felt a little strange at first, but that soon passed. All good fun and no problems. For Red I think the biggest age gap was around 16 years (younger than her).

CB

[aahours1]

My Finance' and are one for the age thing. She is 36 and I am 56. Very well equiped for being able to get it up and on whim. We have no problems of swinging with couples that are in between our ages or even a bit younger, but for right now anyone in their 60' is kinda out of the picture.

[Menage_a_Trois]

Speaking for myself (I'll let the ladies reply on their own), I am 45. About ten (10) years ago when we first got into the lifestyle, we played with a couple and the wife was in her early 50's. And recently we hosted a house party and there was a 20 year old lady that wanted to play with me so we did. That was a little weird at first since she was younger than my kids, but after we started really getting into it, that wasn't a problem. I agree with the people that say age is just a number; it is all in our heads. If you get turned on by the idea of being with someone younger or older, then go for it.

Mr. Ménage

[VanHlebar]

Age is not a problem for me. If we click we click, plan and simple. I am here to have fun, meet great people and just enjoy life, so if that happens with someone younger than I am fine, older than I am fine also.

I am like most employers......I don't age discriminate. facelick

-Van

[LFM2]

Like Van says, age really isn't a problem. After all, it's a number, right?

A lot depends on their maturity, and if we click, great!

[good times]

When we first started swinging we thought that age would be more important then it really is. At that time we had a pretty narrow age range that we would consider. Since then we have dropped all that, if we are all into each other, we couldn't care less what our ages are.

I am 47 and have recently had sex with women from 23 to mid 50's. Mrs. GT is 43 and has recently had sex with guys from mid 20's to mid 60's. For us, if the attraction is there, we really don't have any age limits any more.

[JustAskJulie]

Here's a similar thread you may want to take a look at:
How big of an age gap between you and your swing playmates?

[Couple_N_Ark]

Jayson is 47, and I'm 42. I would say the majority that we've played with are in the 35 to 45 range, but for me I have been with men in their late 20's & early 30's, as well as men in their early 50's.

Jayson has been with women in their early 30's, and one who may have been late 20's that we met at a club. Also some who were a bit older.

We've always tried to steer clear of anyone in their very low 20's since we have as son who is 24.

It sounds as if most of the ones who have responded so far thinks it is ok to swing with someone as young as say 18???? as long as they are fully aware of what they are doing?

[aahours1]

Myself, I am 56 and my FIANCEE is 36. Not bad for an old man......So we do not lookl at the age of people, but they HAVE to be over 21 years of age.....