age difference with swinging partners

[SouthBond]

We wouldn't pass up a couple because of age but we will for a couple that doesn't take care of their health. I'll take a firm 55 year old woman any day over a 25 year old that is over weight and feels like jello. Another thing is that people age differently. I know several woman that come from families that stay young looking well into their late sixties. The same for men. I also know some that are fading in the looks department but still take care of their bodies and personal grooming. They just have that classy look. And it's attitude. Some people are fun to be around and some are not. This attitude also transfers to the bed, regardless of age.

[sinsinbad]

I just usually read the posts without any comments, but I got a chuckle out of this one. That is because I am 60 and my fiancee is 19, and we have been living together for over a year now.

I wasn't looking for someone her age, and she probably wasn't looking for someone my age either. It just turned out that we are very compatible together.

As they say, "age is just a number".

Dan

[nikki77]

age difference is dosnt matter i had sex with a 75 years old man i enjoyed with him.

[havefuninsun]

We find that younger folks want to stick with younger folks -- those of us in our 30's, 40's, etc. know that age is just a number. We had emailed a couple on Swing Lifestyle who were in their mid 20's. They emailed back; wanted to see our private pics (which are NOT face shots). They, being free members, couldn't see them so I emailed them to their hotmail account. They emailed back and wanted face pics. Now, I thought I had sent some this weekend, but we got an email form them again on Swing Lifestyle basically saying that our age difference was a very big concern to them, that they had not received our face pics, and, and I quote verbatim "We don't want to be surprised with people who have nice bodies but who have faces that look like our parents."

Holy crap! I hope to hell my 10 years older doesn't make me look like their mama. Gesh. I don't think I'll be emailing them any more pics either.

So ... even as the urge to email back a not so nice email is in my finger tips, I will take the high road and not comment back. It's hard though -- I must admit.

Love,
grandma moses.

[Darkblue]

Originally Posted by nikki77

age difference is dosnt matter i had sex with a 75 years old man i enjoyed with him.

I hope he survived!! j/K ,that is some age difference!! to be honest it would depend on how they are!! there are some guys who are my age and look like there 60 and there are those who are 60 and look 45,if i dont like the look then i dont think i would be happy that my wife plays with them but in the end its her decision not mine and if she´s happy then so be it!! fo me personaly i think 25 to 55 dependin once againon how the female is!! htere are some females 55 that are beautifull and others that look like they have been in the washing machine a week long...
There are some many Poss scenario´s i cant even begin to comment on this and or!! so it would depend on the individual person!! the wife wouldnt play with a much younger guy (so she say´s)

Steve

[CuriousInOregon]

My husband and I are 29/33 so not much difference in age and we tend to try and stick with couples in their 30's no reason just a preference and No I dont have any fantasies about being with an Older or Younger Person

[JacobSky]

I am now 26. My first experience with a swinging couple occured when I was 22 and she was 40, then turned 41. We enjoyed a great time on her birthday. That was an age difference of 19 years. While in highschool I began to desire experiencing sex with a mature older woman. I found the ages of 24 to about 45 to be most attractive then. Then while in college, I was most attracted to ages 28-48, with 36 being the most ripe for the picking. That's all spice though. It isn't necessary. I started to realize a couple of years ago that I'd better start pursuing more women my age while I still could. I didn't want to be an other man checking out the barely legal crowd someday, so I decided that I'd better get my fill now.

Yes, age has been a role in my fantasies, especially the ones of two women experiencing each other without me being present, but I do now feel that age is just a number for swinging/polyamory, and that I'd be with women from 18-65 for fun and friendship if all else clicked. I just remembered that I was with a 50 year old woman in the summer/fall of 3005 on a few occasions. She had a wonderful body and craved anal plesures. Most importantly she enjoyed good conversation and lounging around relaxing. That was an age difference of 25 years.

I'd like to meet a woman between the ages of 22-32 for a long-term relationship hopefully leading to mairrage, but that'll happen in time. Meanwhile, I would really like to meet a 35-48 year old lady for fun and friendship with her husbands permission.