age difference with swinging partners

[Rhonda45]

Age is just a number i have been with younger males in there early 20s they are so hot and can go so long.

[northindycpl]

We look for couples between 35 and 45. We have met couples 45-50, and if the right couple was met, we might play.

We don't base it too much on age, though. we just meet the people we like regardless.

[cpl2doitwithu]

Originally Posted by foozballnow

I was just curious what some of the maximum age differences were for people in the life style. As in what was the biggest difference in age you have had with a swing partner.

Part 2 of the question. What would be the most difference you would allow

part 3. any fantasies about age difference

i for one am 21 and have thought about being with someone in their 40's or 50's but never had the opportunity

Age is just a number for us. We are in our early 40's and have had some fun across the board. We are friends and palymates with a couple where the girl is just 20. If she was a giggly little girl type, we would not be interested. But she is quite mature and a lot of fun. Her boyfriend is 30 and we find that she acts more his age than he does...lol...
On the other hand we have played with couples in the sixties. Before you say that's icky, you need to look at people for who they are and not what their "number" might be. One of the hottest ladies we know, is 57.
We have no fantasies about age difference. We don't set these limits. We do have an upper age of 60 on our Swing Lifestyle profile, but we do that because others seem to be judgemental, not a steadfast rule for us.
Gary and Mary

[cpl2doitwithu]

Oops.. meant to add that we are not child molestors....... minimum age of 18 a must... we even carded our 20 year old friend....lol....

[HotMoCpl]

I found out many years ago the 'older women' are, for the most part, more appealing to me. While stationed in Michigan I had a one night stand with a 65 yo woman who was very pleasing to the eye. Me? I was 35 yo.

My wife on the other hand says she'd never get in bed with a guy less then 5 years her junior and the same with older guys. Currently we are 53/52 respectivly.

Also, she has been more open with me concerning sex with other people and every time she says something about age I tell her; "Trust me dear. If you were giving me a bj and a young hard cock took you from behind, you wouldn't complain at all." facelick Just our thoughts.

Always remember; "If it feels good,.....DO IT!" flamethrow

[JakenReenie]

We don't make too much of age differences. We're both mid 50's and have been playing for 15 years. In that time we've encountered people in their 20s to people in their 60s. Occasionally, Reenie makes noise about some guy being too young but that always seems to be in casual conversation. In the heat of the moment, I've never seen her turn a guy away due to age

Sometimes it does seem to be awkward to be playing with somebody younger than our kids but we seem to get over it quickly.

I remember somebody (I think in this forum) once said: "If we could have made them, we ain't gonna do them." Noble philosophy but not for us.

[tylercouple4fun]

Well, this is a GREAT topic!
( 1 ) My BF is 59 and I am 37......there is an age difference of a little more than 21 years between us. When we met on another swingers site, I was 31 and he was 52. We happen to be unfazed by this........other couples seem hesitant when I disclose our ages (it's on the profile however). We have had good luck on swinger sites and clubs in the past but lately it seems that many are just not seeing the real individual inside.
( 2 ) Age isn't an issue with the two of us when we meet a couple. Usually we meet older couples (men in their fifty's, women in their late 40's)which is my ideal preference. The couples in my age range don't seem to be interested at all. They hear "59" and they dissappear. I do believe everyone is entitled to their own likes and dislikes, however I would like to see couples see us/him for who we are, not as an "age".
( 3 ) It is very obvious that I have a tasteful thing for older men. If the other couple happens to be "50ish", are comfortable with themselves, take care of their bodies, and don't mind a younger woman (with my BF of course!)with them, then YEAH! I'd like it! Once again, couples with women in my age range and younger just aren't interested in an older man. That's OK by me 'cause I get to experience what they are missing!!! LOL!!!

This statement was written with no intent bearing any harshness , improper insinuations, misinterpretations, radical judgements, offensiveness, personal accusations and any injustice to any persons here in the forums.

**Ms. Tylercouple4fun**

[tylercouple4fun]

OH, and..........
not that a younger couple would be a problem of any kind.............................................. .................................................. ....................................
facelick
**Ms. Tylercouple4fun**

[wv hot female]

Age is just a number as long as they are legal i'm game.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by foozballnow

part 3. any fantasies about age difference

I always had a thing for older women - then I married one

Mrs Spoo is 12 1/2 years older than me - but looks my age or younger. She totally fulfilled that fantasy and more!

The youngest we have played with is 23 (both girls) and the oldest, well, I am not really sure. You start going that way and you don't ask as many questions. Our limits are not real strict when it comes to age - though older than 50 and younger than 30 and it is more difficult to find folks we are attracted to.

Spoomonkey

[larry818]

When I was a swinger, my ex was 8 years younger than me. I have always been attracted to folks around my age and a bit older, but since I was in my mid 20's, I was never more than passingly attracted to anyone younger than 20. The problem I found was the age difference between my ex and I, she wasn't interested in guys any older than me and mostly interested in guys her age. Those guys tended to come with girls the same age and not interested in me. So, we tended to go for mfm with guys her age.

After our separation, I was specifically looking for a woman my age, and wouldn't respond to anyone younger than me by five years. So, because of an error on my part, I fell in love with a woman 12 years younger than me and married her. She seems to have some interest in swinging, but I think she's too much the jealous type to pursue it and I don't want to relive the age problem, which I think would be worse this time.

[2jersey]

Originally Posted by foozballnow

I was just curious what some of the maximum age differences were for people in the life style. As in what was the biggest difference in age you have had with a swing partner.

Part 2 of the question. What would be the most difference you would allow

part 3. any fantasies about age difference

i for one am 21 and have thought about being with someone in their 40's or 50's but never had the opportunity

Our age preferences are skewed (surprise!) towards younger playmates - and we believe that men age more gracefully than women.

At our age 42/43, we are easily attracted to couples who are 15 years younger than ourselves (age 27ish) - but we have a narrower boundary on the upside (5 years seems about right (age 47ish). A perfect couples match for us, based on experience, is about 5 years younger (37ish).

Furthermore, males at age 50+/- are perfectly fine (because men age more gracefully - check THRAX for evidence thereof) - but we have yet to encounter a 50+ woman who is sufficiently compatible (based on physical considerations).

We will be surprised if we are still swinging at age 50 - give us 5 more years and we'll be happy (and probably exhausted ).

[younger1]

Originally Posted by wv hot female

Age is just a number as long as they are legal i'm game.

My 36 year old wife always preferred her partner to be in his 20's but on a visit to Kansas City she spotted a nice looking guy, rather large who was surely at least 50. It turned out he was one of the bulls who worked the club regularly. She teased me a bit about him and ended up in a private room with him for about an hour.
She really had me going later when she explained how experienced and knowledgeable he was. "He worked me over good", she said. Apparently he made her work also and now she wants to go back.

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by larry818

When I was a swinger, my ex was 8 years younger than me. I have always been attracted to folks around my age and a bit older, but since I was in my mid 20's, I was never more than passingly attracted to anyone younger than 20. The problem I found was the age difference between my ex and I, she wasn't interested in guys any older than me and mostly interested in guys her age. Those guys tended to come with girls the same age and not interested in me. So, we tended to go for mfm with guys her age.

After our separation, I was specifically looking for a woman my age, and wouldn't respond to anyone younger than me by five years. So, because of an error on my part, I fell in love with a woman 12 years younger than me and married her. She seems to have some interest in swinging, but I think she's too much the jealous type to pursue it and I don't want to relive the age problem, which I think would be worse this time.

There can be an age problem, but at least for us it hasn't been an issue. I'm 41 and Mrs. WS is 31. We have playmates (male, female, and couples) that range from 21 - 50. It has been my observation that there is around a 10 year age difference for many of those in the lifestyle that are on second marriages, where those still married to their first are closer (3-years or so) in age. Don't know why, but maybe it has something to do with younger women appreciating the maturity (most of the time ) of an older man.

Mr. WS

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

Don't know why, but maybe it has something to do with younger women appreciating the maturity (most of the time ) of an older man.

Some women appreciate immaturity - something I have by the bushel

Spoomonkey ("BoyToy" extraordinaire!)