senior swingers

[Thrax]

So, which town claims Roy as its own: Vernon, TX, where he was born in 1936, or Wink, TX, to which his family moved when he was about 10 years old (after a 3-year stop in Forth Worth)?

I'd probably call Wink his hometown, too, since he graduated high school there, and that's where he started his first band, "The Wink Westerners." Fortunately for him, he was a much better songwriter and singer than selecter of band names. Probably why he went solo.

Okay, threadjack over. Back to the sexy seniors.

Thrax

[svenbrunhilde]

we are a mature couple, me 55, she 66. I prefer older women and she younger guys. Where are you, complimentary couples in maryland?

[kylezx10r]

Age is just a number... i am open to all

[CBYLW]

I'm in my mid 60's. I have been on and off in the swing scene since my 30's. I still love it. Occasionally I find a 40's or 50's couple where the lady likes older men. I have had some great relationships with them. But I never seem to find anyone in thier sixties. I'm sure thier are sexy seniors out there, I just haven't found them.

[ladyfirst]

Great stuff on this site but here we are....newbies and 53 and 52, respectively. We haven't actually played yet but I'm researching like crazy. Would like to observe in a club first. So question is do we stick out like a sore thumb in a club? We missed a couple of meet and greets because of previous engagements but I just don't want to look online forever. Any advice?

[twobears]

we are here and over 50,we just decided one day we were tried of him being on the computer and me in the bedroom watching TV or beading. We changed our lives and now even with him having a heart attach last week,thank God he was in the doctor office and on the table having test done on the heart!! that saved his life. We are still going to work out as he can the doctors and rehab will get him back better than ever. We have come a long way in the lifestyle 2004,I have lost almost a hundred pounds the hard way,one day at a time it was hard. Hubby lost about 30 and that sure helped his heart and we are going to work out on weights and machine using a program for our age. I hope more out there. We have played with all younger couples is our state is up North and not many our age. We have played with couples in they 35 or so these couples were open minded it effect to meet us and once they did that you know the rest. Well hope more of us oldies will enjoy themselves life is to short.

[BradAndJanet]

Oh my, twobears! Send my good wishes to your husband and tell him I hope he gets up and around really soon!

-B

[OhioCouple]

As a married couple who are in the sort of mixed range (I'm 45, he's 60) who have been bonded together for nearly sixteen years now (married for 8 this year), we have never had any issues regarding age from others via an ad site or in clubs. I don't know how it is everywhere else, bu it had never been an issue to think about, via either venue. This leads me to believe that maybe it's our mindset that is the most attractive? We have taken a leave of the lifestyle for the last two years, as first and foremost our families are our priorites, and always will be. That said, this is what I've discovered:

My female co-workers have relayed to me (way too many times) that my husband is the all get out and then some. They love to go to lunch with us. This is coming from women ages 30 low-ish to 40. Of course I'm very biased, and agree however I know this, he isn't Chippendale material either, cause he's far surpassed the age for tight buns/firm abs that the twenty somethings still think will carry them through their life. However I've yet to see a man in Dockers that will bring me to my knees, like Mr. O.

Oh, and the gray hair is a dead sinker.

On the flip side, there are quite a few young men who happen to think I'm the cat's meow and can't seem to leave me alone long enough to do my job. I'm talking 20-30 ish. Guys my age seem to just stare and try to figure me out so they can understand better how to make their wives more open. (Not talking about sex here...they seem to just be amazed that a woman my age can speak her mind and hold her own) regardless, both age groups gravitate to where ever I am or I'm going. Quite the nusiance at times. There is no way on this earth that I'd make a poster for anything other than weight watchers at this point, based on statistics or age.


It's all about attitude. Whatever the two of you have decided that you would like to do, go into it with a positive attitude and don't feel like it's a let down based on one or two occasions of persuing it, leaving with the feeling of no success. There is success in every venture, something to be learned by it and the more realxed that you become, the less barriers you will have to manuever through. Doing so, It's all the more likely that thet the 'real' you will become a part of your everyday living in both the real world and the hidden from the rest world.

Of course these are just my opinons and I very well could be wrong.

[dinkydow4us]

TwoBears, Best wishes to both of you. Keep up the good work Good luck. D. D.

[tribbles]

There is a house party in So Cal that has an age requirement of 35.

Big party too....many in their late 40's to mid 60's....a few older.

There is also a yahoo group for San Diego mature swingers.

We never stop in California

S

[reed&diana]

We also came into later in life. We are both 55 and have been swinger about a year and a half. Sometimes it is frustrating to find inticing couples that have an age cut-off of 50, Don't know whether to contact them or not. My wife wouldn't like to swing with couples younger than 35 - 40. As for me, anything from 18 up works, (Hey, I am a guy). Just ruling out older couples can be ruling out an incredible roll in the hay. Although your bodies show our age, I feel that we can be quite a fun time. I like to think that I'm still very capable and my wife can give a blow job to die for. After all, we have been at it a lot longer and had more practice. Something has to sink in.

Reed

[ladyfirst]

Well I agree with that we have had more experience in the act of making love and at this stage we don't have to worry about the monthly annoyances that women go through every month that sometimes have gotten messy
We're sort of free to be and that in itself makes me feel sexy. And I don't know why but a lot of my friends and just women I've spoken to cannot even be bothered with the lovemaking aspect with their spouses and since I've been in this "Post" stage of life, I've just kinda exploded with feelings and urges. This is much better than when I was a "youngin'" in my 30's.