What is the age range in swinging?

just1gurl · 02-01-2006, 08:59 PM

Lots of folks posted on their ages, in the average swing thang, how much of an age difference is usual?

I mean - the 20 somethings aren't likely (I'd guess anyway) to swing with the 60's. so what is sort of average for a mix?

VegasLee · 02-01-2006, 09:50 PM

It is all up to the people involved. I have seen 20 somethings party with people three times their age then others that would not party with anyone more then a week older.

I personally tend to like to party with people close to my age and I am hmmmm, older.

Laura tends to like to party with guys younger then she is but I have seen her party with guys older then I am. (Yes, there is some out there older that can get it up)

Since the avg. age in the Lifestyle is about 42 years old there is someone for everyone. Take your pick and enjoy it.

**TNT** · 02-01-2006, 10:26 PM

We usually play with people within 10 years plus or minus our age...this is not a set rule as we have played with people much older and people much younger than us.

Teresa

WesternSwing · 02-01-2006, 11:15 PM

We don't have any set rule, it all depends on the person, but it seems that most are in our age range, the 25 - 45 group.

Mr. WS

hfire269 · 02-02-2006, 12:54 AM

We try to stay in a range of 18-36 yrs old.. but we are noticing that we have more fun with a group thats 30-48yrs old... Im not sure why. lol We are 25 and 27. It seems that we have more in common with an older group then with most of the ones our age.

**good times** · 02-02-2006, 01:15 AM

We try to stay fairly close to our age range (around 21-65 or so) but have played with people half our age a couple of times(we are 43 and 47).

LOL_OMG · 02-02-2006, 01:50 AM

I don't want to play with anyone who is my daughter's age (25)...I would just feel weird. In fact, I turned someone down recently who was that age.

Mrs LOL

meandher2go · 02-02-2006, 07:21 AM

we are 37/38 and we play with a great couple who are 60 and 61 i think. its NOT the age as much as the fun

MrXxotic · 02-02-2006, 07:36 AM

We usually stay about 10 years on either side. That means our playmates are usually between 25 and 50. The majority are probably 35-45.

bear_and_babe · 02-02-2006, 07:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

I don't want to play with anyone who is my daughter's age (25)...I would just feel weird. In fact, I turned someone down recently who was that age.

Mrs LOL

I had the same thing happen to me last week. I was talking with this really cute guy at the club. In the course of talking, he said he was 22 years old and I just could not stop thinking, my marriage is older than this kid is! I just could not go there. I have played with a guy who was 25, and while it was nice, he just needed some "maturity" to him. We are 43, so now we tend to stick to people who are 10 years younger than us, and really no age restriction as to how much older then us. One of my favorite play partners is 61. I guess it comes down to what you are comfortable with.

acple4fun · 02-02-2006, 07:59 AM

I think it’s the people themselves that make the difference not the age. As for us we will not hold their youth and inexperience against a couple.

sexyshelby · 02-02-2006, 08:40 AM

I agree it depends on the actual person. But I still just have a hard time thinking of having sex with someone who is as old or older than my parents. It just seems wrong and dirty (and not in the good way).

~SS

mitzi54 · 02-02-2006, 08:44 AM

It just so happens we seem to play with people 10 years plus or minus our age (33 and 36). The only problem we ever had was a couple the propositioned us and the man was almost a spitting image of my wifes father. She just could not do it. Not his fault by any means but she thought it was just too weird.

Mr. Mitzi

playmatesinpgh · 02-02-2006, 09:08 AM

We also tend to be attracked to and play with people in our age group. But having said that, our ages are 55 and 37 so our age group is wide. The oldest we have played with were around 60 and the youngest were in their early 20's but most of our playmates are in their 40's.

Kinky2some · 02-02-2006, 01:44 PM

Mrs. Kinky is 51 and I am 27 (how's that for a May/December relationship!) and we play with whoever catches our fancy. We don't have any age limits when swinging.

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02-01-2006, 08:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
just1gurl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 183 Location: washington dc area Status: single	What is the age range in swinging? Lots of folks posted on their ages, in the average swing thang, how much of an age difference is usual? I mean - the 20 somethings aren't likely (I'd guess anyway) to swing with the 60's. so what is sort of average for a mix?

02-01-2006, 09:50 PM	#2 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,950 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: how much an age range in swingin? It is all up to the people involved. I have seen 20 somethings party with people three times their age then others that would not party with anyone more then a week older. I personally tend to like to party with people close to my age and I am hmmmm, older. Laura tends to like to party with guys younger then she is but I have seen her party with guys older then I am. (Yes, there is some out there older that can get it up) Since the avg. age in the Lifestyle is about 42 years old there is someone for everyone. Take your pick and enjoy it.
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02-01-2006, 10:26 PM	#3 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: how much an age range in swingin? We usually play with people within 10 years plus or minus our age...this is not a set rule as we have played with people much older and people much younger than us. Teresa
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02-01-2006, 11:15 PM	#4 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: how much an age range in swingin? We don't have any set rule, it all depends on the person, but it seems that most are in our age range, the 25 - 45 group. Mr. WS
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02-02-2006, 12:54 AM	#5 (permalink)
hfire269 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 264 Location: Mount Wolf, PA Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hfire269	Re: how much an age range in swingin? We try to stay in a range of 18-36 yrs old.. but we are noticing that we have more fun with a group thats 30-48yrs old... Im not sure why. lol We are 25 and 27. It seems that we have more in common with an older group then with most of the ones our age.
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02-02-2006, 01:15 AM	#6 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: how much an age range in swingin? We try to stay fairly close to our age range (around 21-65 or so) but have played with people half our age a couple of times(we are 43 and 47).
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02-02-2006, 01:50 AM	#7 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,005 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: how much an age range in swingin? I don't want to play with anyone who is my daughter's age (25)...I would just feel weird. In fact, I turned someone down recently who was that age. Mrs LOL
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02-02-2006, 07:21 AM	#8 (permalink)
meandher2go Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: mass Status: Couple	Re: how much an age range in swingin? we are 37/38 and we play with a great couple who are 60 and 61 i think. its NOT the age as much as the fun

02-02-2006, 07:36 AM	#9 (permalink)
MrXxotic Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 73 Location: Atlanta Status: male half of xxoticangel	Re: how much an age range in swingin? We usually stay about 10 years on either side. That means our playmates are usually between 25 and 50. The majority are probably 35-45.

02-02-2006, 07:59 AM	#11 (permalink)
acple4fun Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 9 Location: Carson City, Nevada	Re: how much an age range in swingin? I think it’s the people themselves that make the difference not the age. As for us we will not hold their youth and inexperience against a couple.

02-02-2006, 08:40 AM	#12 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: how much an age range in swingin? I agree it depends on the actual person. But I still just have a hard time thinking of having sex with someone who is as old or older than my parents. It just seems wrong and dirty (and not in the good way). ~SS
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02-02-2006, 08:44 AM	#13 (permalink)
mitzi54 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 63 Location: Texas Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mitzi54	Re: how much an age range in swingin? It just so happens we seem to play with people 10 years plus or minus our age (33 and 36). The only problem we ever had was a couple the propositioned us and the man was almost a spitting image of my wifes father. She just could not do it. Not his fault by any means but she thought it was just too weird. Mr. Mitzi
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02-02-2006, 09:08 AM	#14 (permalink)
playmatesinpgh Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 136 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LvrofBBWs	Re: how much an age range in swingin? We also tend to be attracked to and play with people in our age group. But having said that, our ages are 55 and 37 so our age group is wide. The oldest we have played with were around 60 and the youngest were in their early 20's but most of our playmates are in their 40's.
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02-02-2006, 01:44 PM	#15 (permalink)
Kinky2some Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Austin	Re: how much an age range in swingin? Mrs. Kinky is 51 and I am 27 (how's that for a May/December relationship!) and we play with whoever catches our fancy. We don't have any age limits when swinging.

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