Would you play with playmates in their 20s?

rocksolid · 12-22-2004, 04:43 PM

Would any couple allow a younger playmate? when i say younger i mean late teens early twenties. I'm pretty young, but i'd feel wierd playing with an older couple. I'm not nearly as experienced.

Candy&Cane · 12-22-2004, 04:58 PM

The couple we play with are 36, we are 23 and 25.. with hardly any experience. They don't mind at all.. maybe find it even quite charming at some times

But then again, they are people who like to start things up slow anyway, so theres no inpatience because of our age and inexperience.

So, enough couples who wouldn't mind (at all), but others will..

Mrs Spoomonkey · 12-22-2004, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Candy&Cane

So, enough couples who wouldn't mind (at all), but others will..

I'm sure from your age you will have no trouble finding couples who won't be bothered that you are younger. I think there have been some other threads where younger singles have inquired and you'll get the full spectrum of answers and replies. For us you would be too young, we prefer 30 and over, a lot of that is due to the fact that your in the same age range as my son and that makes it just a little weird

Good luck

Mrs Spoomonkey

Spoomonkey · 12-22-2004, 08:59 PM

I'd play with young girls...

But I'm a nuaghty monkey

(Yes, this is a joke - sort of)

Spoomonkey

dutch51 · 12-22-2004, 09:10 PM

For us, maturity and the ability to have good conversation is more important than an actual number. The couples we are friends with tend to be older than we are (we're 31) simply because we have more in common with them and can all relate to things better. However, we wouldn't rule someone out based *only* on their age. Really though there are so many couples out there looking for so many different things that you should be able to find compatible playmates.

Good luck!

looking2swing · 12-22-2004, 10:15 PM

I have also noticed that my husband and I have been turned down because of our age. I am 24 and my husband is 30. Most people that we chat with want to meet until they find out our age. They have said that it is too close to the ages of their children.

Nymph an' Satyr · 12-22-2004, 10:50 PM

A problem that we have encountered with younger couples is indecision- i.e., do they really want to do this. A problem with older couples- well frankly, it's arthritis

I'd say the maturity factor is what is important. A mature 22 year old beats an immature 40 year old every time.

CowboynVixen · 12-23-2004, 12:45 AM

As we mentioned in a thread a while ago, we have had a great experience with a couple younger than our kids.
Once we got over the age thing, we began to look for maturity not numbers.

To be honest, the young couple were mature enough to ease us over the age barrier, not the other way around.

A lesson learned.

mde 4764 · 12-23-2004, 06:46 AM

We don't think that age should be a limiting factor. We have played with younger couples and had a great time. The younger couples that we have played with are couples that we met at house parties and on site clubs.

**Alura** · 12-23-2004, 10:38 AM

I don't think either of us would have a problem playing with a younger couple. It would be quite nice to play with people who have lithe, agile and firm bodies.

But why would they want to play with us? We would probably never invite them. Now if they invited us...

Alura

puneswings · 12-23-2004, 11:23 AM

We had met this couple where the wife was about 10 junior to the hubby. She was quite active while he was not at all, besides some touchy-feely things with my wife. So most of the time, it was me with her, with my wife and her hubby cheering from the sidelines. Not comfortable. We decided we shouldn't continue with that one.

Candy&Cane · 12-23-2004, 12:41 PM

The only time she mentioned some kind of a comparisen with her olderst daughter (18), was when she said she prays that her daughter would be 'in safe hands' if she'd ever meet a couple to swing with..
They want to be the couple for us they hope their daughter would meet if she'd ever start swinging..

Maybe it sounds weird to some, but we really liked and understood her saying that..

-just to show it depends how you compare...

DustyandSweety · 12-27-2004, 08:37 PM

we ae a young couple. i'm 22 and dh is 25. i try and avoid talking to others that are 35 and up since thats when they get close to the age of my parents ewww just too wierd

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12-22-2004, 04:43 PM	#1 (permalink)
rocksolid Registered Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 2 Location: dallas, tx Status: single male	Would you play with playmates in their 20s? Would any couple allow a younger playmate? when i say younger i mean late teens early twenties. I'm pretty young, but i'd feel wierd playing with an older couple. I'm not nearly as experienced.

12-22-2004, 04:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
Candy&Cane Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 70 Location: The Netherlands Status: unmarried couple	Re: younger playmates The couple we play with are 36, we are 23 and 25.. with hardly any experience. They don't mind at all.. maybe find it even quite charming at some times But then again, they are people who like to start things up slow anyway, so theres no inpatience because of our age and inexperience. So, enough couples who wouldn't mind (at all), but others will.. __________________ - Formally known as 2Gether (and of course still are ) -

12-22-2004, 08:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,648 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: younger playmates I'd play with young girls... But I'm a nuaghty monkey (Yes, this is a joke - sort of) Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

12-22-2004, 09:10 PM	#5 (permalink)
dutch51 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 392 Location: Ohio Status: happily married	Re: younger playmates For us, maturity and the ability to have good conversation is more important than an actual number. The couples we are friends with tend to be older than we are (we're 31) simply because we have more in common with them and can all relate to things better. However, we wouldn't rule someone out based only on their age. Really though there are so many couples out there looking for so many different things that you should be able to find compatible playmates. Good luck! __________________ smiles M (wifey) and A (hubby)

12-22-2004, 10:15 PM	#6 (permalink)
looking2swing Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 140 Location: Reno Status: happily married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:badswamper	Re: younger playmates I have also noticed that my husband and I have been turned down because of our age. I am 24 and my husband is 30. Most people that we chat with want to meet until they find out our age. They have said that it is too close to the ages of their children. __________________ Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

12-22-2004, 10:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
Nymph an' Satyr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 352 Location: Street, Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nymphansatyr	Re: younger playmates A problem that we have encountered with younger couples is indecision- i.e., do they really want to do this. A problem with older couples- well frankly, it's arthritis I'd say the maturity factor is what is important. A mature 22 year old beats an immature 40 year old every time.

12-23-2004, 12:45 AM	#8 (permalink)
CowboynVixen Active Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 31 Location: Western Washington Status: Couple	Re: younger playmates As we mentioned in a thread a while ago, we have had a great experience with a couple younger than our kids. Once we got over the age thing, we began to look for maturity not numbers. To be honest, the young couple were mature enough to ease us over the age barrier, not the other way around. A lesson learned.

12-23-2004, 06:46 AM	#9 (permalink)
mde 4764 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 38 Location: Texas Status: couple	Re: younger playmates We don't think that age should be a limiting factor. We have played with younger couples and had a great time. The younger couples that we have played with are couples that we met at house parties and on site clubs.

12-23-2004, 10:38 AM	#10 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,354 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: younger playmates I don't think either of us would have a problem playing with a younger couple. It would be quite nice to play with people who have lithe, agile and firm bodies. But why would they want to play with us? We would probably never invite them. Now if they invited us... Alura __________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

12-23-2004, 11:23 AM	#11 (permalink)
puneswings Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 18 Location: Pune, India Status: Couple	Re: younger playmates We had met this couple where the wife was about 10 junior to the hubby. She was quite active while he was not at all, besides some touchy-feely things with my wife. So most of the time, it was me with her, with my wife and her hubby cheering from the sidelines. Not comfortable. We decided we shouldn't continue with that one.

12-23-2004, 12:41 PM	#12 (permalink)
Candy&Cane Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 70 Location: The Netherlands Status: unmarried couple	Re: younger playmates The only time she mentioned some kind of a comparisen with her olderst daughter (18), was when she said she prays that her daughter would be 'in safe hands' if she'd ever meet a couple to swing with.. They want to be the couple for us they hope their daughter would meet if she'd ever start swinging.. Maybe it sounds weird to some, but we really liked and understood her saying that.. -just to show it depends how you compare... __________________ - Formally known as 2Gether (and of course still are ) -

12-27-2004, 08:37 PM	#13 (permalink)
DustyandSweety Registered Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 8 Location: California Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:dustysandsweety	Re: younger playmates we ae a young couple. i'm 22 and dh is 25. i try and avoid talking to others that are 35 and up since thats when they get close to the age of my parents ewww just too wierd

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