Question: Are 20 somethings only wanting females?

[De and Ci]

Its $100 on saturday, $50 on Friday. Go on friday. $50 is also the admission for Anchovies, so it would be the same price anyway

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by curious24

Maybe I'm the only single guy who is interested in swinging that would actually like to be friends with the people I swing with in and out of the bed room. It is exactly this thought that I want an "easy lay" that is keeping me away from a lot of swingers. In fact it doesn't make me very happy at all that I am looked at as an "easy lay" and that I am "used" for only a fuck.

I'm a 20 something for about another month so I'll post my comments to this. The only way we would consider a single person at all is knowing that someone doesn't want to become friends. Personality would still matter because that's still the biggest attraction...but I have this fear that someone who wasn't in a strong committed relationship could develop deep feelings and want more and complicate things. That goes for both single males and single females. To me there is some kind of safety knowing the male half of the couple had fun but really wants to go back with his wife. If we did do it with a single guy I would want to like him, we would need to click, but I wouldn't want it to go much further than sex and maybe a game of pool. Though I don't know that I would want him to be just a "stunt cock" I would want him to be getting pleasure too, receiving pleasure from myself, and knowing that he was making it one hell of a night for everyone involved.

Couples are just more interesting for me. I love being with women, I love giving a woman pleasure and receiving pleasure from a woman... It gives endless combinations with the 4 of us. I also love to watch the other couple "make love" to each other when we are through trading partners. I get more out of couples... there isn't anything that a single person could offer that I couldn't get from a couple and I get so much more from being with a couple.