Swingers in their 20's?

[PotentialSwnger]

Hey everyone!

I have seen alot of replies, throughout the board, of people stating their age. Most everyone is in their 30's, 40's & 50's (that I've seen).

I am 21 and my husband 23... I was just curious to know how many swingers out there are in their 20's? Are swingers in their (early/mid)20's hard to find and are they even desired by other swinger couples in their 30's, 40's, & 50's?

[curious24]

I'm 27 and I have been coming to this site for years... there definately are not (IMO) that many swingers in their 20s... I could be wrong but from the personal sites that I visit there really aren't that many compaired to the 30s, 40s and 50s out there..

[Miss_Piggy]

We're 22 and 24. It's possible.

[stoutgatte]

I recently (well April) turned 30 and my wife is 27... We know 2 other couples in their 20's...

[Luna66]

We are 24 and 25. They are out there, belive me.

[DoubleL]

We're 28 and 23. We run into some of the same things, as far as there being a lot more folks in their 30s than in their 20s. Nice to know they are there, though.

BigL

[akamgaxoxo]

We are also in our twenties...and so is our playmate....I am sure there are some in their twenties out there for you!

[HotCoupleGnS]

I am 22 & hubby just turned 30 in June. We have found a lot of couples in their 20s. But to be actually honest, we have connected more with couples in their late 20s & 40s the best. B/c a lot of younger 20 yr olds don't have the life responsibilites we have. So, just b/c someone isn't in their 20s doesn't mean you should overlook them!

[Dollbabynme]

I'm 26 and my hubby is 28, you are right, there are not many swingers in their 20's. We have found more of an older croud as well. That may be a good thing, really. Because we are so new, I think it would be better to start out with others who have worked past all the "newbie" kinks.

[Dollbabynme]

I'm 26 and my hubby is 28, you are right, there are not many swingers in their 20's. We have found more of an older croud as well. That may be a good thing, really.

[rjrjr]

We are 27 and 26 here! But I agree with one of the above posters, we don't have a lot in common with early 20's because usually they don't have kids and the same responsibilities we have....so we just don't have much in common!

I think our ideal age range is mid/upper twenties or even very early 30's.

[PotentialSwnger]

Originally Posted by HotCoupleGnS

I am 22 & hubby just turned 30 in June. We have found a lot of couples in their 20s. But to be actually honest, we have connected more with couples in their late 20s & 40s the best. B/c a lot of younger 20 yr olds don't have the life responsibilites we have. So, just b/c someone isn't in their 20s doesn't mean you should overlook them!

I didn't intend for people to make the assumption that we would never consider swingers in their 30's, 40's, & 50's. I was just curious to know how many are in their 20's... like us.

We, as well, have a better connection ("connection" not meaning swinging, we have yet to do so) with couples older than us due to our additional responsibilities. Which is why I also asked if swingers in their 20's are even desired much by couples in their 30's, 40's, & 50's?

[DoubleL]

That seems to be 90% of the responses BigL and I get, is older people attracted to us because we're young and nubile . Or, um, something like that . It's actually hard because we want our first experiences to be with people around our age and since I am only 23, that rules out a lot of people for a while until we're more comfortable.

LittleL

[Denver2some]

Originally Posted by PotentialSwnger

I was just curious to know how many swingers out there are in their 20's? Are swingers in their (early/mid)20's hard to find and are they even desired by other swinger couples in their 30's, 40's, & 50's?

We are in our late 30's (me) early 40's (hubby) ... and we've never approached a couple under 30.

However, we have been approached by several couples in their mid 20's. We find it flattering.

We will always talk to them, to see if there's a connection. Sometimes there is, sometimes we find we have nothing at all in common with them ... it varies. Many young couples have been together several years, some since high school. These are the couples that we have gotten along with well. facelick

The couples who have not been together very long ... we are more cautious of them. But that caution is present regardless of the age group. Naturally, we just see many more couples who are boyfriend/girlfriend swinging in their 20's than the other ages.

If you are attracted to a couple who is more than 10 years older than you, we would recommend you make the initial contact. They may not be actively looking for a young couple, but be very interested when presented with the opportunity. If you are a couple who has been together for years, you might want to mention that, as it could set certain "are you sure you're ready to swing?" concerns aside.

[WesternSwing]

I think you see more swingers in their late 30's and older because they have come to grips with more about their sexuality and are more secure in relationships. I know I am. I think in your 20's you are really still expirimenting. There is a reason that the majority of first marriages fail during the period where the couple is 27 - 33 years old.

But that said, we have been with two couples where the wife is 5 - 10 years younger than the husband and is still in her early to mid-30's. I have to agree though, it can be difficult with the kids and younger couples. It makes it hard to coordinate with them. They can pick-up and meet anytime. We have babysitter arrangements to consider.

Mr. WS