Swingers in their 20's?

[BradAndJanet]

Well, I still feel twenty-something! Does that count?

We're really in our mid forties, but we're open to a lot of ages. It depends on the people, not the number of birthdays.

-B

[luckyjoker777]

where are you from i am 24 my wife is 20

[ALilOEverything]

This is kinda hard for me right now. I am in my 20's and this is one of the last times I'll refer to myself like that. I'll be 30 in a couple months.

[hezyf0shezy]

i am ONLY 19 and my girlfriend is 20 and horny as hell!!

[tina78]

I am 26 and he's 36, so I'm hoping for the best of both worlds...the younger crowd and an older one as well. I'm single and never married, no kids...but he's got two kids and has been married and divorced, so hopefully it'll be easier for him to relate to people that we talk to and maybe build a better connection with, and I'm hoping to just kinda follow along I think. The friends we're going to our first club party with our in their early thirties and mentioned that they've had no trouble at all meeting and participating with couples, both old and young, at the clubs they go to.

In my quest into this lifestyle over the past year or so, I've not noticed a huge difference in age, though I've been strictly threesomes and other females, never been to a full-blown club, so I really don't know what to expect once I'm there. In my lifestyle with the threesomes and female partners, I have been with only people under the age of 30, and I've always had the rule that I'm not with an actual "couple" in my threesomes, always just two other people, so there's no issues between myself and the couple, so the whole swingers thing is going to be VERY new to me, but I'm VERY excited about it. I'd be happy with an older couple so long as there was a connection and an attraction present and I felt comfortable with them.

[crazycoupleMA04]

We are both 24 and kinda new to everything. We have checked out boards and such but she doesn't like the idea of meeting people that way. We have screwed around with some friends but not any swinging just a little extra hands and such. We are open and interested but one of the problems is the lack of couple/women in their 20's that we know to play with.

We would love to meet a bi girl or couple to hang out with, go out to dinner and have fun, then maybe more. If anyone knows good places in Boston to meet other like minded people in their 20's or early 30's let us know.

[HotCoupleGnS]

OK hubby & I talked about this today. We think the reason why most swingers are in their 30s & u p is basically b/c of life. While he is 30, we are really young in life. I am in school still. He is starting some classes to get a new license. We have 2 young kids who are no where near school age. We are trying to buy a house. So, basically what I am saying couples a little older are already settled in life. Most, not all, have their career set, their kids are older, which means easier to get babysitters or whatever. It seems we almost have no time for swinging right now. We hung out with a couple a few times recently & went to a club once. Boy! On top of everything else with life we are partied out! So, we think that once we are more sttled in life, it will be a little easier.

Just my 2 cents!

[LexiNMatt]

I am 20 and my girlfriend (might as well be fiance) is still only 18. facelick

[lovemonkey#1]

we're both 26, but we've been dating for 10 years (since highschool) and plan on getting married next october. while we're not necessarily "settled in" to life or anything, i think that the fact that we've been together so long makes us more interested in the lifestyle. relatively speaking, we have had very little experience outside of our relationship and feel that we're ready to venture out and do some exploring

[gsu22]

I'm 22....but in the experiences I've had the couples have been in their early to mid 30's....I really enjoy women in this age bracket for some reason facelick

[tazzie_n_truck]

Tazzie & I are on the late end of our 20's now, and we have had some difficulties finding people to swing with around our age range, not saying that couples in their young 20's are not good, but we have come across alot of younger couples in their early 20's who were very imature, and extremely pushy. So with us we usually look for couples 25 +. But that's our feelings too.

[adlib]

We're both 27 (well, I will be in November, he's the old man ). I get along much better with older women as friends, so I imagine it will be close to the same with swinging. We were married at 21 and had our first kid *ahem* 7 months later, second kid 16 months after THAT, so we're a pretty established family unit with responsibilities and such. It seems as though older (I don't mean old, I just mean the age. Young doesn't = hot in my book) couples are more understanding of responsibilities and childcare wrangling, etc. and would be less likely to pout about plans falling through. I'm sure it's the same with younger couples with similar stuff on the homefront.

-Courtney

[youngswingers]

We started swinging when we were 23 and the main reason for it was because my partner was bi and wanted a chance to explore her bi side while still in our committed relationship. The swinging scene was a great place for that... the only problem was that it was hard to find young couples. Way too often we'd go to a club and be the only ones under 40! Thank god for the internet... we started a little group for young swingers in our area and it just kept growing and growing. Now, 4 years later, there is a nice sized community of young swinger we play with of all lifestages (kids/no kids, married/dating, and partiers/homebodies). My advice is to all young swingers is to do the same. It makes a world of difference.

[buzzbaycpl]

I am 29 and hubby is 30. We have been married for 9 wonderful years. We find we have more in common with late 30 something couples. Maybe it is their security with thier realtionship we find so attractive. facelick

[PotentialSwnger]

Originally Posted by luckyjoker777

where are you from i am 24 my wife is 20

We are from the Portsmouth area of Ohio.