New Year's Party Game

[NealnAnji]

We have been attending New Year's parties for many years now, with six, eight or dozen or more couples, usually in someone's home. Actually, we have been going to these parties for many years before we even considered swapping mates for sexual interaction with couples. We are new to the lifestyle concept.

The last couple of years we have become aware that we mising out on a lot of fun since admittedly the couples that attend are straight or "nonswingers". At least, that is the way all of them seem to come across. So we end up dancing and merrymaking followed by a happy new year's kiss on the cheek or the lips.
Unexplored is the opportunity for swapping mates with other couple/s for sexual interaction with someone other than one's own spouse. This should of course include having intercourse with someone else's wife/hubby. It would be a blast to do them all and do it all. It became all too painful this last party when some couples went home and others flopped on the floor with no chance to undress snuggle up and enjoy sex with the next pretty lady.

Million dollar question. How do we gauge the interest and willingness of other couples short of asking "would you like to go beyond holding hands", i.e., swing/swap mates for sex to celebrate the New Year?

Are there any games (purchased or improvised) the couples could play that would kind of separate the willing swingers from the unwilling or those who do not endorse sharing his/her partner for sex? It may be too much to expect 100% participation, but thought of indulging in sex with a handful is a mindblowing thought.

Any thoughts and suggestions will be appreciated.

NnA

[Alura]

That seems like a fun idea, NealnAngie! Fun ideas, unfortunately, always carry risks, skiing or swinging. Assuming y'all are willing to take that risk, here are some thoughts.

I'd try to get some "back-up" by recruiting another couple to help us in the project. Pick a couple and invite them to dinner. During conversation, find out if they are willing to discuss sexual issues at all. Your wife should be the one to bring it up. You can tell a joke, talk birth control, it doesn't matter.

After you're comfortable, Mrs. should ask, "How do y'all feel about swinging?"

After you've recruited a few couples, start having your own New Years Parties

Does anybody else have any ideas?

Mr. Alura

[Alura]

Originally posted by NealnAnji

Are there any games (purchased or improvised) the couples could play that would kind of separate the willing swingers from the unwilling or those who do not endorse sharing his/her partner for sex?NnA

I saw a Karnival party in Germany turn into about ten couples and some other combinations having sex on a living room floor. It was quite unplanned. Some stayed with their spouses; some didn't.

There was a Spin-the-Bottle game in which "IT" would have to kiss the opposite sex pointed out by the bottle while removing one article of his/her clothing. Since the kiss could go on all the time the item was being doffed, clothes came off really slowly... and sexy. The newly-kissed player then became "IT" while "ex-IT" took his/her place in the circle. That way the players were constantly being moved around and mixed up. The kissing continued after all clothing was gone until one couple sort of slid to the floor, and in seconds sex was going on everywhere.

Mr. Alura