Planning NYE Party

[bisecretdime]

Ok guys I need your help. I am hosting (for the first time) a new years party for 3 -5 couples that pretty much know each other and I am trying to get an idea of in what order should we do things for the night. I was thinking to
1. arrive and eat
2. start a drinking game
3. do an exchange favor game
4. do a strip game
5. do a more erotic interaction game like twister
6. do a more exchange favor game that leads to sex..

but I am not sure if this will work..please guys that are experienced in this HELP. I promised a fucking good time.

[NakedInSeattle]

Forget the games. Just provide the eats and drinks (or BYOB if you prefer) and then get out of the way. Enjoy your guests and let them enjoy you. 'Nuff said.

[pairbond]

We agree that games are not very popular at swingers parties, especially if the couples have a little bit of prior experience. Put out the snacks & drinks and let people serve themselves. As host & hostess, make an effort to introduce couples who don't already know each other, and give each a little information about the other so they have something to talk about.

Friends of ours once made up dance cards for each of the men. Each guy's card had on it the name of all the ladies except the one he brought to the party. Everyone was asked to dance at least one dance with everyone on their dance card before any playing began. It was a great way to get people to spend a few minutes up close & personal, touching each other, and provide an opportunity to chat. Obviously, the music was slow dance. You want people's bodies touching when they dance. Keep one room open as the "dance floor," with dim lighting, and encourage people to dance.

If you have a hot tub, have the top removed and invite everyone to strip naked and use the tub as they desire. Sometimes it's helpful if the host & hostess get naked and into the tub first. It helps others to get up their nerve, and is a great way to get people naked together.

The hostess or another woman she knows to be bold could also help get the action started by getting topless while dancing and encouraging their dance partner to do a bit of fondling. Hot kissing while dancing is also a great way to turn people on.

We have hosted a half dozen parties, with anywhere from 5 to 10 couples present. As host/hostess, we try to make sure that BOTH of us are not upstairs playing the same time, so that at least one of us is downstairs to help people keep mingling, keep the snacks & drinks table freshened, etc. We also strive to keep an eye out for shy people and try hard to get them involved, even if it means WE start playing with them a little bit right in front of everyone.

You don't have to fuck everyone at the party to be a good host/hostess, but it really helps to get your parties going and get everyone in the mood if you are willing to help the shy people get into the "swing" of things by playing with them.

Good luck!

[JustAskJulie]

I agree with the above. When people first arrive you need to give them a chance to unwind and socialize a bit before expecting anymore. Have dinner and drinks, from there things will take their own course.

[Carol_Danny]

We haven't done games in a long time, and even then, they just happened and nothing was planned. I agree with the other, just get together and socialize first, then let things take their course.

I don't really like the sex games, but I do know some people do. If your crowd are the type that are into those games, then go ahead with it.

Carol xoxoxo

[michelle101]

I vote for skipping the games. After spending the week with the kids, the last thing I want to do is play games, no matter what kind they are. I like to just socialize. Dance, mingle. Things usually get started on there own. I'm learning that there is usually at least one person present who doesn't mind getting things started. Who me? Never!

[WesternSwing]

I agree. Just set-up the food and drink and let things happen as they may. The only time games work is if nothing is happening. We went to a party that was just dragging-on. Mrs. WS arranged an impromptu game of spin-the-bottle and within a half hour it was an orgy. We got emails for weeks afterward both thanking her and inviting us to several other parties.

We are co-hosting our first party tonight, and we've done the same. Food, some booze (it's also BYOB if people want anything other then what's on the menu) and decorations. But we also know with this crowd it won't take much beyond that.

Mr. WS

[SluttyWife]

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

Forget the games. Just provide the eats and drinks (or BYOB if you prefer) and then get out of the way. Enjoy your guests and let them enjoy you. 'Nuff said.

I agree...put all your efforts towards wow-ing your friends with food, drink
hospitality (pampering comfort) and atmosphere.

Music, dress and candlelight or some variation of that sort
should lead to "better things"...and fond, sexy memories for sure!

Definitely eat first...or do as Slutty Wife does and
get everyone so stoked on bedding each other that the feast
happens perchance after midnight!

Naughty, naughty New Year and good luck with the planning.

Slutty Wife ;-*