Need ice breaker games for group at Hedo

[EmpyreanPleasur]

OK...here is the deal - we are going to Hedo with a group of people. MOST of this group is new and never been to hedo or had little experience in the lifestyle, so I am having a hard time coming up with games that may be too intimidating to new people who are not ready to "party" with others.

I'm looking for stuff to draw people out.

For instance, last year we played a game of "suck and blow". You get a deck of playing card and sit in a circle, boy - girl, and take one card...then one person sucks in, holding it up to their mouth and turns to the person next to them. That person begins to suck in while the first person releases their hold on the card and allows the second person to suck it away from them.

Obviously there is a lot of giggling going on and cards get dropped frequently!

Now...the object was that if a girl dropped the card, then the girls would all get up and lap dance for the guy next to them and vice versa...then they all mover one position over and continue the game.

However, this became a problem when one guy decided his lap dance meant he could insert himself into the girl dancing for him and things almost got ugly!

SO...any suggestions on what the "loser" in this game could do that would be "safe" or any suggestions for other relatively riske but safe games would be greatly appreciated here.

Thanks in advance!

[JustAskJulie]

Truth or dare (any variation of it) would probably be a good one for a group in this situation. Strip poker is always good and once clothes are off you can advance to exchanging small "favors".

For a group where you aren't sure where people stand ... Intimate Details is an excellent board game to get the talk started and can lead to a lot more. Evidently neither of the toystores we use sell it, but I did find it online here

[EmpyreanPleasur]

I was thinking of truth or dare...but I'll have to see how far this group is willing to experiment. If they get a dare they dont' want to try...

That Intimate Details game looks really good! Thanks!

[JustAskJulie]

I've played it before and it's really perfect for situations like yours where you don't quite know where people stand

[Miss_Piggy]

For truth or dare you can always include little ways for people to get out of doing something they aren't comfortable with. Like if you say no to a dare then the whole group gets to band together to come up with a truth for you to do instead ( - or the other way around for saying no to a truth... do that make sense?)