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HotCoupleGnS · 06-05-2004, 07:05 PM

Sounds like a lot of fun! If you are close to the people, you should be able to make somewhat of a guess wether or not your friendship will be ok. Our first expereience before we ever knew there was a name for it, was with our really good freinds. I don't think any of us really knew there was a whole lifestyle for this stuff. But if we had been more informed, or maybe just used common sense, we would have been able to see it wasn't a good idea. They weren't very secure in their relationship. They had probelms, like he thought she "wanted" my man & she thought he "wanted" me. We should have seen that they weren't ready to deal with that kind of stuff. Needless to say, their problems interferred with our friendship & we are no longer friends anymore. Which sucks b/c we were good friends for quit a while.

But I think you would be able to feel it out. Ya know? Well anyways good luck! What more fun could there be then getting to "play" with your friends!

06-05-2004, 07:05 PM	#6 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 967 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: Going from Vanilla to Heavenly Hash Sounds like a lot of fun! If you are close to the people, you should be able to make somewhat of a guess wether or not your friendship will be ok. Our first expereience before we ever knew there was a name for it, was with our really good freinds. I don't think any of us really knew there was a whole lifestyle for this stuff. But if we had been more informed, or maybe just used common sense, we would have been able to see it wasn't a good idea. They weren't very secure in their relationship. They had probelms, like he thought she "wanted" my man & she thought he "wanted" me. We should have seen that they weren't ready to deal with that kind of stuff. Needless to say, their problems interferred with our friendship & we are no longer friends anymore. Which sucks b/c we were good friends for quit a while. But I think you would be able to feel it out. Ya know? Well anyways good luck! What more fun could there be then getting to "play" with your friends!