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Originally Posted by butterfly29 What made any of you comfortable enought to full swap? What do you feel you had to come to terms with before you swapped, or did you just wake up one day and yell "SWITCH"? |
Mr Spoomonkey pretty much summed it up in his post in regard to trust and comfort between us.
For me there was another factor. It was also getting comfortable with myself and my boundaries. The Mr. is the one who had brought up the whole idea of swinging and I wasn't sure if I would be comfortable seeing him with another woman or me being with another man. He gave me the freedom in each situation to go with the moment as far as I was comfortable. (his limits being more expansive then mine
at that point ; )
Basically I over thought everything but when the time would come it was so enjoyable I was able to go with it and realized how much I enjoyed our decision to swing.
Mrs Spoomonkey