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HotCoupleGnS · 05-27-2004, 11:27 AM

Actually, I think in today's society this is more common. Not just in the lifestyle.My hubby is very concerended wiht his looks & hair, even more so than I am, lol. He is a lot of what you described above, except that he has that true anly side to him too. He loves to watch football, play PS2, hunt, & fish. All those "manly" things. He doesn't have any of those gay tendenices that you mentioned. I describe him as a perfect mix. He is very in touch with his feminie side, but very straight. But he is very comfortable with his own sexuality and is very comfortable with gay men. He used to have a few friends that were gay & even went to gay bars. He is my favorite shopping partner. He is better at telling me what looks good on me & what is in style then any of my girl friends.

But I think it is actually society. Men feel they need to look just as good as us women. I think maybe it seems that there are so many in the lifestyle b/c not only are they trying to look just as good as women, but also trying to "catch" the eye of others. I personally like it when men tan, highlight their hair & just really take care of their appearance. I think it is putting an end to that stigma that men are the "ugly" ones & women are the "beautiful" ones.

So all those "metro" guys or whatever you want to call yourselves, more power to you!

05-27-2004, 11:27 AM	#2 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 967 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: Metrosexuality in the Lifestyle Actually, I think in today's society this is more common. Not just in the lifestyle.My hubby is very concerended wiht his looks & hair, even more so than I am, lol. He is a lot of what you described above, except that he has that true anly side to him too. He loves to watch football, play PS2, hunt, & fish. All those "manly" things. He doesn't have any of those gay tendenices that you mentioned. I describe him as a perfect mix. He is very in touch with his feminie side, but very straight. But he is very comfortable with his own sexuality and is very comfortable with gay men. He used to have a few friends that were gay & even went to gay bars. He is my favorite shopping partner. He is better at telling me what looks good on me & what is in style then any of my girl friends. But I think it is actually society. Men feel they need to look just as good as us women. I think maybe it seems that there are so many in the lifestyle b/c not only are they trying to look just as good as women, but also trying to "catch" the eye of others. I personally like it when men tan, highlight their hair & just really take care of their appearance. I think it is putting an end to that stigma that men are the "ugly" ones & women are the "beautiful" ones. So all those "metro" guys or whatever you want to call yourselves, more power to you!