 Re: My Way or No Way?
I know this has been hashed and rehashed, but I think the most important thing is to be as straight up as possible up front--for everything. For those of you that are on swappernet, I invite you to check out our profile on there--it's under bugsnlola96922 (and hey, if ya like, drop us a line--LMAO shameless product placement). I am not saying that ours is the ultimate, but I took a LOT of time and effort in making it very complete. It's not a rulebook that is a mile long, it just describes the both of us in a very distinct way so that you KNOW when you get an email from us or decide to send an email to us what you're getting into muhahahahahaahahaaaaaaa..and of course, I try to add humor to it all, so remember to tip your waiters and waitresses, they're working haaaaaaaaaard for YOU!
The point is, we all know that we have preferences. Why I agree that this is a lifestyle that you should hold firm to your likes and dislikes so that you can enrich your experience as much as possible, I also think that constantly questioning those and seeing how you can open your mind is also a great thing to do. Restaking your boundaries as your experiences and mind expands needs to a natural evolution that I believe brings people closer to a "swinger mecca" if you will. And everyone is different, again, and that is what is sooooooooo awesome about all of this. As long as people are very honest and aren't trying to do things they don't want to do or are unsure of, everyone involved should have an awesome time in any given situation, imo.
Tim
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