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Originally Posted by Avantgarden38 When we first started swinging we practiced the same room only rule. As we became comfortable with our swing partners and same room we decided to give separate room a try. It has been a great experience for us and we incorporate it into our swinging activity. Same room is fun as well, but it's a shame to not consider separate room , at least with the right people.
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It seems to me that the same room only crowd is the majority....
I don't think its a trust issue...and I don't think that it is a comfort issue. Still it is being suggested that people who swing in the same room aren't as trusting or as comfortable doing this...which is absolutely not true.
I swing same room because I connect with my Man while doing it. I love watching him with another woman and he loves to watch me do whatever I do I do...whether it be with a man or a woman. That is our reason, no insecurities, no uneasiness, lots of love and trust here.
I'd like to hear some arguments from the people who swing in separate rooms. I mean after all...if you think that separate rooms are so wonderful...give me some whiz-bang reasons. But then again..if separate rooms are SO wonderful...why aren't more people doing it?
Zgirl