 Re: Separate rooms. . .why not?
As many of these couples have said, we practice this way becasuse we enjoy watching each other enjoy themselves. We got into this together, b/c we talked about it & the idea of watching me with another guys, the idea of me watching him with another girl, and the idea of watching me with another girl turned us on. The key word here was "watching." While we respect other people's decision to do what they like, we ask others to repect ours. I am not really seeing why this same room thing has tuned into such a big deal!
Why are you wanting to inspire talk between the "same room only" crowd? If this is our decision why would you want us to change it? I can only speak for ourselves, but I am sure it is the same with every other couple that feels this way, we have talked about separte rooms. That just doesn't do it for us. So their would be no right couple.
If we were to meet you guys & you didn't like our decision to only play in the same room, then it wasn't meant to happen. If you wanted to play with us, you would have to accomadate to us. |