Separate rooms. . .why not? Seems the majority of couples swinging do not practice separate room sex with their swing partners (49% last count).
Let's play devil's advocate and ask those couples. . ."Why not"?
Is it a comfort issue, a trust issue, are you not familiar enough with your swing partners. . .or even your partner?
When we first started swinging we practiced the same room only rule. As we became comfortable with our swing partners and same room we decided to give separate room a try. It has been a great experience for us and we incorporate it into our swinging activity. Same room is fun as well, but it's a shame to not consider separate room , at least with the right people.
We are hoping this thread will inspire some creative communication within the "same room only crowd". Give our quote a read. . . .
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