Usually we are a pretty easy going couple and we set our rules according to each situation. However, if we are not comfortable, we will not do something just to accommodate someone else. We would never expect that from others so why should they expect that from us. For us to do something such as separate rooms, we both need to agree beforehand or "signal" to agree when the situation presents itself. (Yes, we do have little signals just in case there is a time that we can not talk one on one for whatever reason.
) Now if it was someone trying to pressure us, we wouldn't even bother with them.
As for pictures...we do require to see a picture or two before meeting anyone. Of course we give them pictures of us in exchange, so its only fair.
~Mrs SnS