 Re: My Way or No Way?
My opinion - If you have rules and boundaries that you have set and made clear to others you are interested in playing with and they attempt to make you change them then you need to find new playmates. You set your rules so that YOU are comfortable and then you find people who are willing to work with your rules. If they don't want to work with your rules then they can go and find someone else who's rules they like better.
Goes back to one of the major rules of swinging - Move at the speed of the slowest person. = Swing by the rules of the person/people with the most restrictive rules. |