The Swingers Board - View Single Post - At what age are you mature enough to understand swinging?

ALilOEverything · 05-25-2004, 10:08 AM

I was married when I was 19 when we did swing a couple times with close friends but never with strangers we met in a club or off the internet. It went well and didn't affect our relationship. We did later end the relationships but due to other problems.

I don't think I would want to be with anyone that young now, just because I don't connect with people that age as well anymore. Not that I'm that much older (I'll be 30 soon and my husband is 31) but with the kids and careers I don't think we would have much in common. Also that's just such a new relationship I wouldn't want to be a part of any complication. BUT we have been trying to look past age and look at the couples themselves so I guess it would ultimately depend on the couple. They would still have to at least be 21, old enough to buy their own drinks. We've been setting 27 as our minimum age for our search criteria.

05-25-2004, 10:08 AM	#10 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,847 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: Age... I was married when I was 19 when we did swing a couple times with close friends but never with strangers we met in a club or off the internet. It went well and didn't affect our relationship. We did later end the relationships but due to other problems. I don't think I would want to be with anyone that young now, just because I don't connect with people that age as well anymore. Not that I'm that much older (I'll be 30 soon and my husband is 31) but with the kids and careers I don't think we would have much in common. Also that's just such a new relationship I wouldn't want to be a part of any complication. BUT we have been trying to look past age and look at the couples themselves so I guess it would ultimately depend on the couple. They would still have to at least be 21, old enough to buy their own drinks. We've been setting 27 as our minimum age for our search criteria.