We've seen some recent post in which people believe that because they prefer a certain activity, their play partners should accommodate their preferences at least some of the time. The word "fair" was used. Another posts had to do with photos and the sending of them. I, for one, will not send photos. Period and end of story. Personally, the more someone pressures me to do so, the more firm my stand. (and those that know me well know that I can become a boulder!
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So what do others think? If you and your partner have agreed to same room only activity, do you feel you are being pressured if someone insists upon separate rooms? If you've posted in your profile that you will only participate in same-room activity, how would you respond to someone attempting to pressure you into separate rooms? Do you feel you need to occasionally "accommodate" that other couple? Would you go along with that person's desires just to swing with them once or even on a frequent basis? As for the photo issue - do you feel that your need for discretion out-weighs that of others?
Certainly, we can all change our boundaries as we come to know people, but I'm talking in the beginning here. What do you think?
- EBF
