The Swingers Board - View Single Post - At what age are you mature enough to understand swinging?

Spoomonkey · 05-24-2004, 10:09 PM

Well - that's a little young - but I suppose I should post the "PC" answer...

It depends on the couple. I am sure that there are some 18 and 20 year olds out there who are mature beyond their years. In general, however, I can't imagine having much to talk to an 18 year old about...

"Really? My daughter listens to that, too! She really digs Chingy. Digs? It's sort of an older slang term, yes... It means 'likes a lot'."

And I'm only 35.

I think that the majority of people that young, likely have no idea what the lifestyle is really all about. The fact that they are unmarried would be a red flag as well - are they even mature enough to understand commitment?

There are lots of unmarried folks who understand commitment - and there are probably a few 18 year olds who understand what they are getting into. But it seems lately that "girls gone wold" sexuality is the current fad - and I wouldn't want to be a part of someone's bad memories of youth.

Spoomonkey

05-24-2004, 10:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Age... Well - that's a little young - but I suppose I should post the "PC" answer... It depends on the couple. I am sure that there are some 18 and 20 year olds out there who are mature beyond their years. In general, however, I can't imagine having much to talk to an 18 year old about... "Really? My daughter listens to that, too! She really digs Chingy. Digs? It's sort of an older slang term, yes... It means 'likes a lot'." And I'm only 35. I think that the majority of people that young, likely have no idea what the lifestyle is really all about. The fact that they are unmarried would be a red flag as well - are they even mature enough to understand commitment? There are lots of unmarried folks who understand commitment - and there are probably a few 18 year olds who understand what they are getting into. But it seems lately that "girls gone wold" sexuality is the current fad - and I wouldn't want to be a part of someone's bad memories of youth. Spoomonkey
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