I am very sorry to hear you are going through this. I definitely think if you haven't already started you could benefit from some counseling since this is a very life changing thing.
Yes you should tell everyone you have been with that you can. I know how betrayed you must feel but realize that you feel this way so other would feel the same way if you don't tell them. I hope your wife is being supportive. My thoughts are with you.
Steph |