Wow a lot of info here. I really appreciate all of the insight and help. It definately helped me understand possibly where she is at this point. And as far as pushing, I actually brought it up once seriously, she told me how she felt and that was the end of it. Im sure shes pretty positive that if she decided she wants to explore it, she know Im more than willing to talk with her about it. Whats funny is now she makes jokes about the whole swinging thing which kind of freaked m out at first because I didnt epect it at all. We were in bed watching a porno and of course it was a threesome and she jokingly asked me if that was what i wanted for my birthday. Needless to say I was at a loss for words but we laughed it off and that was it. But anyways we'll see what happens. Im in no rush. If she decides she wants to explore it thats cool and if she decides she doesnt, thats cool too. Again thanks for all your help.
