Re: Need honest opinions
When we first decided to enter this lifestyle, I had spent MANY months just fantasizing about it..Although I seriously did have some interest, I wasn't remotely ready to admit it to hubby. I loved the idea and it made for some hot orgasms, but I became very insecure about the whole thing, (for various reasons). For many of us it's simply not something we ever dreamed of taking past fantasy.
The one thing I still appreciate today, is that he (hubby) NEVER pressured me into anything...as time went on and I began to talk to "swingers" and saw that they were as normal as he and I, it soon became my idea to explore more and more.
Today, I have a unique relationship ,I am VERY content and happy in, but [I]ONLY because I was never pressured in the beginning.
"If" she is interested she will talk to you about it.... As it looks now, you have a really open, honest and sentual sex life. That's a blessing.
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