 Re: Other Men
The work issue is a big red flag, in my opinion.
Also ... if this other man does not have swing experience, I would be very suspicious of his motives. His interest in you may be more than sexual, though he might deny it. Or his interest might grow because he sees sex as equal to a "dating" relationship. Or perhaps he is one of those men who seeks the ego boost of coming between a wife and husband. Any of these scenarios is a major mismatch with your and your husband's motives ... which sets up at a minimum annoyance, at a maximum bad feelings all around. (And perhaps job-hunting on your part.) |