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Old 05-15-2004, 05:13 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Default Re: Premature Ejaculation

One tip that appears to have been repeated in quite a few sexual technique volumes is to practice masturbating almost to the point of orgasm but stop short of actual ejaculation. This seems to work on two levels: firstly, it helps the male learn to recognise the signs of his approaching orgasm, so that when he is with a partner, he knows when it is *definitely* time to slow things down (assuming that he's not ready to come) and where his 'point of no return' is; secondly, it helps the male gain confidence in his ability to stop himself from coming prematurely, which should take some of the anxiety out of future encounters, and help break the cycle.
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