Thank ya'll so much for your input. As far as him being able to last longer a second time, well I have no idea. He gets so embarrased the first go round that he is scared to try a second time. And age wise, well I guess we would be considered on the lower end of the age range since both he and my hubby are 23, but the hubby has no problem holding back. I guess it can be chalked up to inexperience and the old asian disease "lackanookie"
Anyway, I will definately tell him to try taking care of business before hand, though I honestly think that he does do that already, and we will try the squeeze techniques this weekend. Again, thank ya'll.