 NEW: Guilt-be-Gone!
It would be so much easier if guilty feelings about sex could be removed with the spray of a magical herbal product.
Tryit2?, my gut says: Your wife shouldn't swing until she has come to a place of understanding within herself. She will know it when she finds this place. She will experience a wonderful calm and peace, where she will know that her choice to swing is not sinful and wrong, but healthy and right for both of you.
Swinging first, before she has come to terms with her guilt issues, is not going to erase guilt. It might even make her feel worse.
I left guilt behind when I added up all that was right in my life: a wonderful husband, an already healthy sex life with him, realizing that sex and love are TOTALLY different things, realizing it's OK to love and appreciate your body and the natural sexual urges we have, knowing that my husband and I are in this together, and lastly, being prepared to stand up for what I believe--swinging is a good thing for me and Mr. LM.
Good luck.
LM
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