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Originally posted by HappyEyeball
For me it's simple. Secrets. Hooking up without your partner's knowledge. It it's out in the open with clear understanding between partners it's not.
Mind you, there still may be fallout and damage from activities *with* partners knowledge, but both people went into it with eyes open.
My .02.
Jeffrey |
I agree 100% with HappyEyeball. It is the Secrets. I never hide what I am doing from my husband and expect the same in return. Most of the time when we express some suggestions, we agree it is fine. But if I would happen to find out after the fact that he participated in something that we had not agreed on, I would be angry and consider it cheating.