View Single Post
Old 05-06-2004, 06:34 PM   #14 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
Chimpin' Ain't Easy
 
Spoomonkey's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Posts: 6,739
Location: Ohio
Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine?
Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey

Spoomonkey is very well respected around here Spoomonkey is very well respected around here Spoomonkey is very well respected around here Spoomonkey is very well respected around here
Default

We never really thought of it. We just always find ourselves attracted to couples of the same etnicity as us. We are Caucasian (from the motherland - Caucasia). We discussed it once and just figured we weren't attracted for whatever reason, but that changed one night when a really nice black man asked Mrs Spoomonkey to dance. For personal reasons, we couldn't play that night, and I thought Mrs Spoomonkey would never stop pouting. He really tripped her trigger... And it wasn't because he was black - it was because he was a really nice guy.

I guess that goes to prove - it really is the person. We aren't looking for - or away from - playing with a couple or single who are a different race than us; but we are ALWAYS looking for great people to play with.

I think I'd be offended if someone wanted to sleep with me only because of my rich viking heritage instead of my dazzling, if somewhat quirky personality. And I can't imagine treating anyone any differently.

Spoomonkey
__________________
"Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis
Spoomonkey is offline