EBF: I can see your point of this being a research tool regarding swinging, and how in some cases may be undertaken without the partner's knowledge. If we add to that scenario that while the researching partner is online here, the unaware partner walks into the room and asks innocently enough 'what are you doing?'..... if the response is 'nothing' or a quick click on the 'x'..... now we're into lieing and hiding.
A huge part of developing trust and keeping it is openness and honesty, that when I ask 'what are you doing?' I get an honest answer, one that doesn't leave me wondering or doubtful. The latter inhibit trust. IMHO. It would be at that point that I would feel it's time to have a discussion about my research.
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