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Originally posted by hmr
[. Many people discuss the possibility of swinging, but don't go any further because one or the other is timid or shy.
Sometimes it takes the other partner to take the first step!
Taking the first step is sometimes a frightening thing to do. They want to proceed slowly, as to not scare their spouse. They also want to gather as much information as possible before broaching the subject again. Gain some insight as to what they are talking about, before they bring their partner onto the site.
mrs hmr [/B]
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This describes my situation exactly! So, am I cheating? Not in my mind, my heart, or my conscience. I am simply moving slow as advised by many others and waiting for the right time to introduce my spouse to this board. That time may come, and it may not. so in the meantime, I still do participate in some of the discussions. If you check my history of posts, you'll see that at first I had many questions and from time to time I have pursued answers to those questions when I saw a post from someone with similar questions or already had the expeiences I had questions about. The other posts I've made have just been a general hodgepodge of things and comments. I guess to each his own, but I am certainly protective of my relationship with my spouse and want to make sure I proceed slowly in the swinging idea. Thanks to those of you who have sent me PM's of support and understanding.