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Originally posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
If you know what you are doing is not cool with your partner and you do it anyway,without them knowing, it is cheating.
To nail down a set of black and white rules on what is cheating and what isnt is nearly impossible.
Since no two couples dynamics are the same everyone has different ideas on what constitutes cheating. If you go outside the boundaries set in your paticular relationship then you are a cheater.
Just my thoughts.
BTW,
The word "YOU" is not directed towards anyone in this thread. Just using it as a generic term. |
Yup...agreed. As long as C and I stay within the set bounderies then everything is fine.
I have no problem with her going out and sleeping with another man as long as she tells me about it. That's not cheating to me.
Now she doesn't feel as comfortable as I do. If I were to sleep with another woman that I had met whether I told C or not it would be considered cheating on her.
So I believe cheating to be different for each individual or couple. We have a friend who's husband is addicted to porn. I'm talkin' internet, phone, movies...the whole nine yards. To her, he's cheating on her because he's not including her in their sex life. And I'm almost inclined to agree with her.
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