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Many couples within the swinging lifestyle are adament about always swinging together, no exceptions. In fact, we're one of them.
However, if one partner were to become physically incapable of having sex, due to illness, paralysis etc., would that partner give their spouse permission to seek physical gratification outside the marriage, provided it was done discreetly?
Dan
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We've already said on another thread that we are both free to pursue outside contacts, so in our case the answer is yes.
It requires a great level of trust in the relationship, and a letting-go of control. That might be even more the case in the situation you describe. It would truly be a heroic act of love on the part of the incapacitated mate, whose only "perq" in the situation is knowing that his/her mate is still able to find sexual pleasure without guilt.