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He's on a message board. He has fantasies, he enjoys some discussion of sex and sexuality.
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I wouldn't have those discussions with him..it would feel like I was participating in his cheating. That's just how it feels to me and when it feels wrong I don't do it. Usually. Okay many times. Okay as often as I can.
In this scenario tho...I won't engage married men who are on here and their wives don't know or who have said no to swinging, I won't talk 'sex' with them.
I keep it on the board and respond to general questions about the topic, that which they can render a better understanding to talk about this with their SO later on they hope.
Clarify... I wouldn't share the down and dirty details of what happens amongst swingers sexually.