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Originally posted by yawanna
Everyone makes their own choices for their own reasons, and I don't believe I am one to condemn or condone...it's not my life. As a topic tho, yes.... I have an opinion.  |
And surely
YOU don't think that
I would think that
YOU wouldn't have an opinion....
Ok...yeah, yeah, yeah...so swinging couples might be more open with each other than non-swingers. Got it. Now if you can, put yourself in the place of a non-swinging couple. Insecure wife. Throws a fit if her husband even looks at Playboy. Or as Vegas Lee said, I believe, a wife that thought making eye contact with the waitress was flirting. In other words, they don't have that open and talk it out relationship we hear so much about on this board. She lives in a bubble and wants him to live there with her. He's on a message board. He has fantasies, he enjoys some discussion of sex and sexuality. Katy bar the door if she found out!
Do we fault him for coming here, reading, participating, wondering, understanding, questioning? Or should he live in the bubble with her?
- EBF
