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Originally posted by hmr Who knows, if ever faced with that difficult decision, I may change my mind and lie like a dog.
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Now that's what I call honesty! And, I suspect, where many of us would find ourselves...not lying, but not knowing exactly what we would do in a given set of circumstances. So very many variables.
OK....so another question that was actually the basis of my thought process...if you don't mnd?
We have several participants on the board - married. Have said their wives have no interest in swinging. Yet they come here, participate, make "friends" with all of us, never any hint of trying to "hook-up" with anyone. Essentially, 100% straight down the line. Assuming these wives don't know their husbands spend parts of each day or week here, and assuming they would feel some sort of displeasure if they did know...would that be considered cheating in any respect? The consensus seems to be that if it is in any way deceitful, it is cheating. I contend we all have aspects of ourselves and personalities that others know nothing about. Including our very most significant others. Further, I believe a place like this to come to for reading and friendship might even prevent problems in some relationships. Kind of the "my place" thing, if you understand what I mean.
Comments?
- EBF
PS: in a few days, I'm going to be really busy and promise to stop posting this type of stuff. Honest.