We have discussed cheating so many times. I guess the only thing that matters is when the moment of truth comes that the opportunity exists and someone does not really respect the "friendship" factor they hold with their SO. I remember a situation where I gave a lady friend a ride home from a party and she basically stripped down and wanted it right there. She was very good looking and very horny. I never thought of the sex though only my "friendship" bond with my wife who was away. It is the moral high ground and respect that blocks out lower drives such that sex can be for all of us. Laughter etc. are all signs that we are complex and able to function above just a purely horny mode. So cheating is about personal choice and sensitivity for us. Had we been cheated on before? I had in my teens and this formed a deep sense of what is right for me and how it feels. As far a surfing the websites like this? It is alot like going to college and having topical studies. I for one did look at things for awhile for the scintillation factor only to be seduced by the information and nice people. Now my wife loves to read things and talk about it too. So another answer to What is cheating might be a question: "what is the outcome of it?" or "Where is it leading?"
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