After talking through this topic we reminisced our weekend outing, we felt like there were folks all around us that "shined" with a great attitude but we foolishy excluded them because of age or some other silly notion. This was "clouding up" what was important. One lady and her spouse approached us and they were very nice but probably 10 years older (I'm 44) but for some reason we disassociated the erotic from the nice factor. Instead we let another couple hit on us that was closer in age. What a mistake. They held all the cards; including the one that permits the bad attitude to be suppressed until after dinner and into the hot tub.
We invited them into our "world" based on a false notion of what is attractive-- In spite of successfully picking each other 15 years ago because of our inner qualities and marriage material, I guess one could say we had to relearn "the hard way." Anyways, thanks for the input and we have garnered some great views thus far. And by the way, We still had great sex together in spite of the goofball, egomaniac who we actually had dinner with....YUK Never again. We Hope!
