Attraction as well as personality is a must.
As far as attraction goes, there doesnt have to be much for personality to make up for it in a big way. But there still has to be some to start with.
Mrs Naughty and I cant believe how hard it is to find a couple we both click with.
When we first started seeking couples we started with this board first to find answers to some of our questions.
Reading thru many, many threads we heard several times about how hard it was to actualy find a couple where EVERYONE completely clicks.
We thought to ourselves "It cant be that hard to find".
We were wrong. Either I click and she doesnt or its the other way around.
We are still looking for couples but since my favorite part is watching Mrs Naughty take the cock and her favorite part is getting the cock ( Watching me with another woman doesnt do much for her) we have been leaning more towards MFMs.
Much easier to click that way. If she finds him attractive and likes his personality we find the nearest bed.
I have to agree with the men she finds but as long as I dont get bad vibes, like he is just out to conquer another bitch, I let her have her fun. But she gets attention from both of us at the same time.