[flassh]

Hi, our question is: How, if at all, does the attractiveness of the other couple affect the decision to get more involved with swinging with other couples? More specifically, is it possible to play when one of the other couple is 1) not attractive, 2) out of shape or 3) has a bad personality? We have been to several get-away weekends where we were engaged by couples that found "us" attractive but we had trouble with one of the them. Usually only 1 of them would fall into the "undesirable" label, so we kept the relations distant. We have not gotton past this and thus are not having much luck meeting others that are mutually attractive (loosely defined as we are not perfect or even demanding such). Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Regards Mr. and Mrs Flassh