Wow! So many questions and food for thought. I am no longer able to bear children, however my husband can. In the case of playing with a couple in which the female is still fertile, a condom is always used. Condoms can and do break or slip and this could become an issue.
I think it makes a difference on how well you know your play partners. If it could be one of several people, then you are into another whole can of worms. We choose to be friends with our play partners (which are very few) and I would hope if this situation arose that they would come to us about it, so we could all make an informed decision of how to proceed. Speaking from experience (that I'll not go in to) it is very important to know the medical histrory of the unborn child's bio-logical parents.
I would have to think that morally, if I could become pregnant and did, that we would let the others know. We would learn their position on it and decide where to go from there, dependent upon the response from the other couple/single. If nothing else, we would need their family medical history and wouldn't be able to get that without letting them know.
Good questions.
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