I have thought long and hard about this topic. I have had my tubes tied - but hubby is not V-safe. If he were to get another woman pregnant - I don't think I would handle it very well. I feel very selfish admitting it - but its true. If the family had to know he got someone else pregnant - I don't know if I could let them know I had approved of his actions. We use condoms - but there are always risks. I don't know how we would be able to make it through that.
Wilma- the surgery was not that bad - I think I had it on a Thursday and was back to work on Monday. It was worth it - for sure!!!
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