Well I don't think we would keep it, sad as it is but as I'm 45 now it wouldn't be very safe for the babies health, so as my dh has also had a vasectomy we're going to have to take extra measures not to get pregnant.
We haven't swung yet but I have thought about it a lot as my youngest is 3 so it looks like I'm still fertile as I've got a 5 year old as well
Mrs.